I think I'm falling hard for my roommate. What should I do? I think he feels the same but doesn't cop to it.

Question

A few months ago I moved into a male friend's apartment. We have known each other for about a year and always got along fantastically. We both agreed at the time that we were't "looking" for anything more than a roommate situation. We are adults, single and neither one of us is seeing or dating anyone. We have been spending almost all of our time togther. We go on week-end trips, go out for meals, just have a great time together. I think he likes me too but we don't talk about it. I don't want to lose his friendship but this is making me crazy. I think he is afraid to start something since we are roomates. How can I tell if he likes me without just coming out and asking as that is not an option. I feel like I'm in high school or something- NOT! Opinions or suggestions?

Answer 1

Be nice to him and he might notice the way you are looking at him.
Maybe compliment his body or physique in some subtle way.


WISHING AND HOPING
(Burt Bacharach)
Dionne Warwick


Wishing and hoping and thinking and praying
Planning and dreaming each night of his charms
That won't get you into his arms
So if you're looking to find love you can share
All you got to do is hold him and kiss him and love him
And show him that you care

Show him that you care just for him
Do the things he likes to do
Wear your hair just for him, 'cause
You won't get him
Thinking and a-praying, wishing and a-hoping

'Cause wishing and hoping and thinking and praying
Planning and dreaming his kisses will start
That won't get you into his heart
So if you're thinking of how great true love is

All you got to do is hold him and kiss him and squeeze him and love him
Yeah, just do it
And after you do, you will be his

You got to show him that you care just for him
Do the things he likes to do
Wear your hair just for him, 'cause
You won't get him
Thinking and a-praying, wishing and a-hoping

'Cause wishing and hoping and thinking and praying
Planning and dreaming his kisses will start
That won't get you into his heart
So if you're thinking of how great true love is

All you got to do is hold him and kiss him and squeeze him and love him
Yeah, just do it
And after you do, you will be his
You will be his (2x)