How do i control myself around my crush?

Question

I really like hem, and whenever I see him in the hallway at school I always turn bright red. What should I do?

Answer 1

Do something very courageous and spontaneous. I can't tell you what to do or it wouldn't be spontaneous. The purpose of this is partly to let your crush know you have a crush on him, but mostly to overload your sense of embarresment.

It is a psychological fact that a person has a limit to how embarressed the mind can handle. Beyond that limit, the mind shuts down, leaving you in a state of the complete opposite to embarressment, where you simply don't care what happens. Once a person experiences this extreme limit, all other embarressing experiences pale in comparison, and so from then on you can think clearer and act with intent, knowing it will never be that bad again, thank god, and that because it's not really all that bad you have control, and when you realise you have control, you do, and the embarressment goes away.

simple, but complicated. Easy, but very hard. How are you going to make an absolute fool of yourself, without being scarred for life and then being the talk of the whole school for weeks? don't do it at school! do it in front of lots of strangers, at the mall or something.

Ask your crush out on a date when you see him next time at school (alone), and go to the mall to share an icecream sundae or something, then go browsing in the entertainment section of one of the big department stores, and I'm sure the entire time you'll be a tomato, but thats OK coz only he saw you like that, and he'll probably like it. Good luck!