Someone one use to mention to me, life is all about being patient. Which I agree but how can I be patient when its a last moment kind of thing. I desperately need my families help in life... not financially but emotionally I needed them to be there for me. I asked them, even talked out my problem but they never seem to care. I’m out living alone, trying to finish school and working hard…They never even touch my grade cards or remember my birthdays….what can I do to improve the support from my families?
2006-06-13 12:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by lk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unfortunately you do not always get the behaviour you want from other ppl, particularly with family. I went through something similar in my life, not the same exactly, but similar. I was lucky enough to find a friend who was an older woman and who became a substitute mother. I didn't purposely go looking but she was sent by the angels for sure. She taught me not to stress so much in life and to only sweat the big stuff. I still do think of her as a mother figure and she has been a wonderful grandmother to my children too.
Perhaps you could write to your family and explain what you need in terms of support and what sort of relationship you would like to have with them. If they cannot accept what you are saying or ignore you still, then you will have to find what you are looking for outside your own family or give it to yourself. Give yourself a small party when you have achieved something, tell yourself that you are special, congratulate yourself when you get good grades.
I wish you luck, it sounds like you are working hard towards a good future..stick at it.
2006-06-13 13:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Family should love you and support you in any form but my family is all the opposite of this meaning
2016-07-20 17:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM JUST WHAT YOU SAID IN HERE. And if they dont change or respond more lovingly "dump that family" and adopt another one. Sometimes one can find better people who act more like a great family amongst total strangers who do understand what you are talking about and who will respond to you with love.
So remember, tell them and get their love or dump them and adopt another family.
2006-06-13 13:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
family means loves and if you don´t have love in your family don´t worry many people out there is waiting to love you but first God loves you try to work harder and be a good student and remember you have the best you have yourself i send you a kiss and go ahead
2006-06-13 13:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familys are protecting each other, no matter what, and being loyal.
2006-06-13 12:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋