If someone u love proposes........and you do love him.....but you're just not sure if you can live with his circumstances...at least not now... and he insists to get married now...what do you do?
2006-06-13 12:30:52 · 16 answers · asked by xqueenyx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He shouldn't insist that you do anything.Remember,what ever his circumtances are if you get married are you will have to deal with them whether you like it or not.If your gut feeling is not to doit,DON'T.
2006-06-13 12:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 11⤊ 1⤋
From the sound of it, you would be better off not getting married for now. You didn't mention what the "circumstances" actually are, but unless you are willing to love that person no matter what, even the good and the bad, then you should probably take a step back and seriously think about it.
Marriage is supposed to be forever. Both partners have to be willing to work things out together, or it won't work at all. Unless your are willing to make that kind of commitment, and it doesn't sound like either one of you are, you're much better off waiting. Don't let ANYONE pressure you into such an important decision like this.
2006-06-13 19:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hoopfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toughie!! You tell him yes, and then you just plan the wedding for a time later in the future. Just because you get ingaged now doesnt mean you have to get married right away! and if he says that you should, just say, "no, i need time to plan everything out. it has to be perfect. its every womans dream to have a perfect wedding. and if you truly love me, you will let me do this the way i feel we should." it'll work. and if you really dont want to be married at all. just tell him you need time. time to relax and think about your options.
2006-06-13 19:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by efraevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait, and if he really loves you he won't pressure you. You must have good reasons for being unsure about it and you shouldn't get married until you have cleared up everything that is bothering you about marrying him.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 19:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by cute_but_dangerous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain how you feel and be totally honest with the guy. If he truly loves you, he will understand and take all the time you need. Good luck !
2006-06-13 19:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't do it. If you don't think you can handle it right now it will probably end up in a quick divorce. Wait. If he loves you he will wait, or at least change his ways.
2006-06-13 19:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't wanna say yes because evntually when you are on your honeymoon some guy will ask you do you wanna scubaa he will say no and you will go and you and the scuba guy will end up in the back of the boat slapping fillpers and the only thing stopping you from saying no is what?
2006-06-13 19:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you would love his"circumstances" too
2006-06-13 19:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Getroman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready you know the answer. Only you know. Never do anything your not ready for. Good luck.
2006-06-13 19:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait. If he loves you, he will wait. This is for life.
2006-06-13 19:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by reneelf2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋