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i tend to bore my dates out of their minds but not sure why as am kinda animated and witty normally...do lots of stuff...know lots of things...what do you guys really want (no rude answers...already know that kinda stuff x)

2006-06-13 12:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)

2006-06-13 20:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by bebop 3 · 2 0

Ok, you sound like a cool girl, chatty and confident. So first of all I think that you should engage him by asking him more questions about himself. You'll find that people love talking about themselves and will find YOU interesting despote them having done most of the talking. Thing of some relationship or friendship situations and ask his opinion on them. Or ask him about his experiences of things that interest you or that you are curious about. What would he regret not doing in life if the world was to end tomorrow, so what's most important to him in....life...or in a relationship....or in his studies...or in his career...or in his favourite sport .....or whatever really. Always remember, as you are a woman, men will be already 90% satisfied by you just agreeing to go out with them. Also most importantly, remember that as a woman.....it's you that chooses the man not the other way around. Be more selective and challenging to the men, and make them to prove themselves to you to justify your valuable time. Do not be afraid to consider that these particular men are not right for you anyway. You deserve a man who thinks like you and tries harder to impress you, not the other way around. Good Luck!

2006-06-13 13:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Zane 2 · 0 0

just be yourself dont act desprite adn have a good time the more you tyalk about stuff you have done and all the ex boyfriend stories you tell more than likely you wont be going out on a secoun date

2006-06-13 12:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by chad r 2 · 0 0

you dont need to impress anyone if they like you they like you if not dont worry to much about it there is some one out there for everyone you just need time but eventually you will meet the person in life who is meant for you

2006-06-13 12:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by misty 4 · 0 0

have a few drinks... catch a buzz and go with the flow. try to laugh at things he says, etc. if you dont want to talk, ask lots of questions and appear like you are totally into what he is saying.

2006-06-13 12:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0 0

Relax and be yourself, then! Maybe you are trying too hard. Take a chill pill, relax and then when it clicks with a guy you wont have a problem.

2006-06-13 13:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by ell_hayden 2 · 0 0

Emm, tasty joke.... Did you know that English people used to drink that stuff (not wine) to whiten their teeth.. Limeyes

2016-03-15 03:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 4 · 0 0

Have a 12-inch c**k.

2006-06-13 13:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Look cool while licking your eyebrows.

2006-06-13 12:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by WoodyBretton 3 · 0 0

just be youself find out interests and just talk about that

2006-06-13 12:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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