i have been talking to this girl for two years i have never met her. but we exchange pix messages all the time. we always say that we love each other ath the end of every phone call and text message.she is prob the most beautiful girl that i have ever talked to. and i cant stop thinking of her. i got her and her dog birthday presents the last two years. and she said that we are going to meet in vegas on my birthday and get married next year.
2006-06-13 12:25:11 · 3 answers · asked by chad r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very stupid.You are living an illusion.It all seems so thrilling and exciting and once you went to bed with her it is all done with the tease and you realize that you do not match.A study recently proved that internet marriages are the highest divorce rate.
It is so easy to marry but so hard to divorce,just date her for now or have fun in bed with her that is all there is anyways.
2006-06-13 12:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by willywonka172 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't use the term "stupid", but I would call it unrealistic. Love comes from all dimentions of a relationship - and you are missing a KEY part of that - actual face to face contact. Words & pictures are just that - and they can be manipulated - and over dramatized. She isn't REAL until you are actually spending time together. Look at it this way...you have no idea what her habits are - what she is like to be around 24/7.
The two of you have created this bubble on the internet - where real life doesn't come into play...so of course it seems perfect.
I seriously suggest you back off of discussing love, or future plans - until you get to know the REAL girl, and she gets to know the REAL you. It is going to take a lot more than a possible chance meeting in Vegas.
2006-06-13 12:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to meet her in person spend time with the real girl not the internet girl and go from there
2006-06-13 12:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋