No, I'm not talking about the one's that aren't married. But the ones that are...I am a young Christian woman and I love pleasing my husband. Is that taboo for Christian women to say out loud? Do most married Christian women enjoy making love to their husbands?
2006-06-13 11:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have been a Christian for 45 years and have been married 45 years. I had some hangups in the beginning but not because I was a Christian but because I came from a very disfunctional sexual family and they were not Christians..... but once that was taken care of it has been great and still is..... I still love to please my husband. Why should it be taboo to say you love to please your husband? I think the taboo would be in saying you love to please your neighbor....
2006-06-13 12:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very loaded question. Unfortunately, the patriarchal heirarchy of the Christian church (I'm not sure which denomination you are, so I'm going to go with "Catholic" since it's the oldest) has beaten it into our heads that woman is inferior and guilty - Eve's sin, yadda yadda yadda and all that and no matter what a woman does she will always be inferior and guilty and not deserving of pleasure.
Ah, but what of Jesus who spoke compassionately to Mary Magdalene, saving the prostitute from being stoned to death? He had no qualms with women. But he was also Jewish . . .
Enjoy sex.
That's the short answer. You have no reason not to enjoy it, unless your husband is bad in which case, practice!
2006-06-13 19:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Akapoetry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. Whether your christian or not, you're only human. Just relax and continue to enjoy it. I'm Christian, and when I get married, I will more than enjoy making love to my man ;)
2006-06-13 19:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by xxtra chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopnestly, that's an answer each individuals makes for herself. Some denominations have no issue with a weoman being very passionate with her husband. some believe it should only be for procreation. i think there is nothign wrong with sharing all with one you have said vows to
2006-06-13 19:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when they are in the presence of other Christians.
Why wouldn't you enjoy it? You're supposed to enjoy.
Of course, if you are a Catholic, Baptist, or many other cultes, you aren't supposed to enjoy it, you're supposed to only do it to produce children and for no other purpose.
2006-06-13 19:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Left the building 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as i used to be a christian i can tell you the answer is yes. everytime i tried to have sex i felt guilty and shamed. the funny thing is when i left christianity i no longer felt that horrible *dark* feeling when i had sex.
2006-06-13 19:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am proud of you, to have the courage to say it loud.
2006-06-13 19:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by byefareed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to. It is natural.... you're just not sposed to before your married.
2006-06-13 18:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society / religion has molded an image that sex is bad .... but everyone does it .... hmmmmm.
2006-06-13 19:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋