I was born in March of 1967 in Los Angeles, CA. She was only 16 when she had me. Don't know her name but have my information...
2006-06-13 11:57:40 · 11 answers · asked by smcarter710 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you sure you want to do this? Are you sure she wants to be found??
Be careful what you ask for, it can be pretty traumatic for everyone involved.
Everyone is so big on "finding the birthmother" without any thought for what it might do to the birthmother or her family to be found. Imagine trying to get on with your life and then having an unexpected stranger show up on your doorstep saying "I'm the kid you didn't raise"? What will that do to her and her hard-won new life? And are you prepared for the sorrow it might cause you if she rejects you?
Just be careful...
And if after thinking it through, you still want to go through with it .... You can google adoption+reunion searches to find an actual search engine/database that you can place your name on -- if your birthmother is also on that database looking for you, it will match you guys up.
Good luck.
2006-06-18 16:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by ABBMAMA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the hospital and see if they have the information archived on mirco film somewere, I am sure you can look at the date of all the births on that date and see who was only 16?
I am so sorry, I hope you get some guidance her. Because I really don't know. Thoughts and prayers are with you :)
2006-06-13 19:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with the Bureau of Statistics for the State of California. Also, there is a new law which opened closed adoption records once the adoptee turns 18. Try adpotionregistry.com also
2006-06-13 19:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by beachbrd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to County Records and ask.
Look in the County Library for births in the local news paper archives. Then figure out the hospital, and see if it's still around.
Check the Social Services jurisdiction for that Hospital, and ask them. Good Luck. Be sure you are ready for this.
2006-06-13 19:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by jinx4swag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're best bet is to either hire a private investigator to look into to whrere your mother is today, or contact the adoption agency that helped your adopted parents find you, they might have some information pertaining to your mother whereabouts. Some adoption agencies lock files with information like that, but its worth the shot if it means you can meet your biological mother. I wish you luck.
2006-06-13 19:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by billiej0703 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your parents now were they adopted your from and track back through those adoption centers until you hit the first adoption center and try and find files of theirs and those might tell you where or use your birth certificate and go through that hospitals files that you born at and it may tell you your birth parents then search all the search engines, myspace or thousands of phone books for there number if you find there names? if i was help e-mail me at skweejal@yahoo.com
2006-06-13 19:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
check the Internet
2006-06-13 19:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Mormon Church has been THEE BEST source of geneology for me. They record EVERYTHING and it's quite cheap.
2006-06-13 18:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your birth certificate. they are only like $20 bucks
2006-06-13 19:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
google search your last name.
2006-06-13 19:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋