2006-06-13 11:21:24 · 13 answers · asked by molovekayak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see. In your life time, you will probably go on at least a hundred dates. Do you plan to have sex with them all? How many have you already slept with? Your very question tells the guy everything about you. It says that you are easy, for you sleep with your dates.
Girls like you make it very hard for good intelligent girls who do not plan to whore around with every Tom, Dick, and Harry. You might want to do something foreign; try dating a guy who refuses to have sex with you. This will help you to see your worth and how precious you are. You do not need to sleep around in the name of dating.
Richard's Corner
2006-06-13 11:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Richard Stapleton 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're thinking about it the wrong way. You should think about getting to know someone, spending time with him, and THEN maybe if there are things in common, then have sex.
You need time to get to know a person, know if he has any STD's and so on. What if he ends up being a disgustingly mean and insensitive person, do you feel it's ok sleeping with someone like that before you get to know him?
You need to know there is something called STANDARDS. It's a measurement that only you decide after meeting someone for a while. Is he nice, is he honest, reliable (pregnancy is an accident more than you think) mature, responsible so on and so forth.
Most people say after a few dates, but in your case, I think maturity is an important factor. You seem young, and like you're not thinking about the complications that sex brings into a relationship. Sex is about being honest, open, and being vulnerable. Do you want to be vulnerable to a potential snake?
I'm not trying to put you down, but I think you need to mature a little more, and you're not ready for something so tender. Maybe think about what relationships are about. Don't be so eager to go to bed, you'll come off as being trashy.
INTIMACY TAKES TIME.
2006-06-13 11:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 10 minutes
2006-06-13 11:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it...the guy and girl have to be comfortable with each other and with the idea of having sex even though they probably won't last until marriage...If they aren't comfortable, they probably should wait a while until they are confident.
2006-06-13 11:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Breakdancer Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she can. And don't do it just to get him to date you. It doesn't work like that. I always had a rule of at least 6 months of being together...
2006-06-13 11:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least until after 18 years of age. Then (hopefully) that girl is more mature to make a smarter decision
2006-06-13 11:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until after you date awhile. Make sure that he wants to date you, not just have sex with you.
2006-06-13 11:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you know him better and you know you love this person, and that he feels the same way too.
Because this is an act of love, besides, you can get pregnant if u dont protect yourself.
2006-06-13 11:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mate. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably sometime after she starts dating this person for a while
2006-06-13 11:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by projectbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married, doesn't anyone know why you wear white in weddings for?
2006-06-13 11:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋