we met on line and seem to be soul mates.The time is drawing near for us to meet.We have been in relationship for 9 months now and are in tune with each other so much.He has been single 14 years,wife cheated on him then divorced him.I have been single 6 years,husband cheated on me then divorced me.We seem to understand each other so well and have already come thur so much just on the phone,which we are on alot(lol).We both have fallen in love with each other.I adore Australia and her people which I have been trying to learn alot about with an open heart and respect of her cultures. He has already said once that he had a good mine to marry me to get me to stay in Australia.We both are every honest with our feelings toward each other,life and many other things.We have so much in common.Everyone here in Usa is for the relationship to work for I have let him speak to some of my friends(I work for a hospital).We are both over 40 years old.A second chance at love for us,just what we needed.
2006-06-13 11:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by loveaoperatorfemale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know several Aussie/American married folks and they do fine. Nobody here can tell you yes or no, but good luck!
2006-06-13 11:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by wixthedog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never been together. Never been around each other...you need to be...that counts for allot.
When you meet, things can shift. See how that goes first. If that goes well and you work together, then take another step...explore the possibility!
Would I move to Australia to be with someone I fell in Love with?
I probably would if everything was right.
There needs to be a life for you there, so I would explore being there next. Go there for a while and spend 2 days just exploring it on your own...do you like it do you fit...do you feel at home...
What about friends and family? Are you ok with the distance?
Best wished to you..can I come visit? :)
2006-06-13 11:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by danthefitnesstrainer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to meet, of course, preferably more than once before you should try to decide whether this is ITor not. I hope it all goes brilliantly for you, though. Don't be afraid of a bit of awkwardness when you first meet - on both sides, probably. It's only natural when you start by getting to know the soul before the looks and mannerisms.
All my best wishes :))
2006-06-14 15:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your love be held back by nationalities. If you love him and he loves you then the relationship will survive. There will probably be complications, but you will make it through them all as long as you believe that you will. That's the best that I can tell you.
2006-06-13 11:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Identity99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a better idea once you meet in person...but I do believe that anything is possible!!!
2006-06-13 11:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by SeeNoEvil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋