Would you want to get to know a boy closer (would you be "romantically" more interested about him-if you knew that he is very shy, even though he has clear and straghtforawd, determined goals in his life, is kind, helpful, but still doesn't seem to have much self confidence. Do you think you would still be able to fall in love with him?
2006-06-13 11:08:57 · 7 answers · asked by seafish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohh how sweet! Personally, I think that is great. I like a challenge and some ladies like to help a man break out of his shell. All it takes is someone to care about who you really are, get to know the real you. And yes, there are some girls out there who are like this. We arnt all bitches. So keep trying, you are an elite person who wont change for a girl. Thats a great quality!
2006-06-13 11:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Velvet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to fall in love with someone, he needs to be open and express how he views life, love, and happiness. All this can be achieved ONLY if the shy person allows others to get to know him.
So no matter how handsome, nice he appears to be, really what;s important is that he opens up, because sometimes with shy people, you don't know what they're thinking. It's good to give time so they feel comfortable, and THEN if it looks as tough there are things in common, and what they like romantically, has a lot to do with that, including kissing, holding hands or maybe a little bit of hugging in public.
If you're ready to open up, go for it. Yes, it does involve a certain amount of risk, but if you're ready, love has many many rewards.
2006-06-13 11:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, when women get ready to settle down and get married they dont want to have a man who dont know what they want in life. Normally a woman is attracted to a guy who has a goal but is not afraid to want to open up after a few months.
2006-06-13 11:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by cameron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy, but I just wanted to point out that while I understand low self-esteem or low self-confidence are not very appealing to women, they are things that can be fixed with a little support.
2006-06-13 11:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-06-13 11:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll grow up one day and become a man and be able to overcome his shyness
2006-06-13 11:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DEFFINATELY WOULD LOVE SOMEONE WHO IS SHY IF WE WERE MENT TO BE IT WOULD WORK OUT>>>
EVEN THOUGH ITS GOOD TO HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE
I FIND IT REAALY NICE AND SWEET IF SOMEONES SORTA SHY >>>>
PEACE>>>>>>>>
2006-06-13 11:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweat n sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋