right after work. Is it something that you value.
2006-06-13 11:08:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Sure, the massage that my husband will give to me. And the dinner he prepares.
2006-06-13 11:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but not very realistic.. Home is where you live and even if you are at work, your loved ones still live in that house and are doing things .
Life doesn`t stop because you are at work, or at home.. It is very unrealistic to expect a totally peaceful domain the moment YOU walk in the door. There were things going on before YOU got there.
Maybe you should become more involved with your family and try to enjoy the chaos.. You will need these wonderful memories you have been blessed with when they are gone and it is just you and the maker and that bed you can`t get out of because you have gotten too old or sick..
I wonder how it feels for those folks who DO come home to total silence and peace.. {:-(
Oh my gosh, I think you are so blessed... You should be counting every one of those blessings.. You will have plenty of PEACE time later..
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-13 11:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace and quite is lovely when you can get it, but if you have children, then you have to get used to the fact that you will never get peace and quiet at that time of the day. This is the life you chose so you must get used to it. I like to come home to the sound of my children. Even if they are fighting and arguing, it is welcome because then I know all is as it should be. Any different and I would think there is something wrong.
2006-06-13 21:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 10 hours of fun in the sun with heavy equipment and jackhammers, coming home to the kids screaming and mom talking to herself alous IS peace and quite. Only you silly people who work in an office have a clue what peace and quite is.
2006-06-19 05:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by jnrockwall@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what did you expect when you started a family - the Cleavers? Everyone has needs, its disrespectful to expect the home to revolve around one person. I get all the down time I need on the 10 minute drive home from work and in the hours after the kids go to bed.
2006-06-14 11:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very important... I think that is the reason why so many spouses don't even want to come home because "home" supossed to be the only place we could feel comfortable, relaxed, loved and if you come from work to a place that is nothing like that than you're better off staying working over time....
2006-06-13 12:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by lf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My home doesn't need to be a crypt, but neither do I want screaming jerk-off neighbors carrying on and whooping like teenagers looking at their first porno mag (which is what I have now!). How important is it? On a 1-10 scale ... about an 8.
2006-06-13 11:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unbelievably important. And I don't have children.
Working in a stressful environment wills you to come home to your place of serenity.
Me personally, for the 1st hour that I'm home I don't even want to hear the ice cream man ride by...
2006-06-13 11:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by prtybrwnskn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be plenty extra to this occasion than what you're giving us right here. Her hormonal variations with the being pregnant would desire to be enjoying a small place on her emotionally, yet some thing substantial occurred which you're no longer telling us. won't be able to do plenty for you devoid of the finished tale.
2016-12-13 15:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by keef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very important especially since I work the graveyard shift and have a 19 month old that stays with my husband at night.
2006-06-13 11:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by m_l_p73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after a hard day at work some quiet down time is imperative. Home is supposed to be your solace.
2006-06-13 11:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by serenitytwenty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋