if it were me I WOULD NOT LISTEN TO ALL THESE PEOPLE TRYING TO THROUGH THEIR BELEIFS AT YOU!!! but thats my opinion...i dont believe in sex after marriage...and if people bring in the whole religious aspect on it... i think its bogus....but hey...thats me..i dont believe because...hey.. guess what...im in control of my own life...i dont follow someone elses preconceived belief that i should do this that way just because they say so....i also believe that i should find someone that can complete me ENTIRELY....that means, spiritually, emotionally and as well as physically...and yes that means in the dept of sex... i believe that yes you shouldnt be with a "whore" but hey...a little experience never hurt anyone...sex its a natural part of life...there is no part of the human genome that states " thou shalt not engage in sex untill you tie the knot"....its nature at its finest....but hey...dont let me discourage your beliefs on it...do what you want...but i think its freakin rediculous
2006-06-13 11:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by lastofodyinbreed 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that people think that they have the right to call you dishonest and wrong for having sex before marriage...lets face it again...what if your partner really sucks at it once you get married...your going to sit there and tell me honestly from your heart that you wouldnt wish otherwise and that "true love" will over come my need for sex?....thoughts?
2006-06-13 11:02:10 · update #1
If you are over 18, do not read this, but if you are younger then please read it. There are many things wrong with that. If you don't want to hear religious stuff fine. But think of how would your parents, or your partners parents feel. Is it fair to hurt them this way? It is not fair to hurt anyone. If you don't care about how they feel, then think of how would you feel, if you got hurt, or someone you truly love got hurt because of what you do. I doubt you will feel happy. These people might leave you and never talk to you. You should not think of other's beliefs rediculous. These are their beliefs and you should respect that because you hurt them too, and it is not funny. People are serious about this. If you want to go on, go ahead, it is your life. If you control your life, then try to control it in a way everyone agrees. You might think that majority of people think the same way as you, but you will be suprised. Many people want to stay virgins till marriage, and many believe that hurting others is wrong. Try to understand this if you can, and believe what you want, but on the inside you know what is right.
2006-06-13 11:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that sex before marriage is the wrong thing to do because sometimes it only takes one time and you could get the girl pregnant or you could end up with a diesease or something could happen to you. I am not saying that something happens all of the time it is just a chance that you will have to take. But think about it for a second, wouldn't you like to share that moment with the one you love when you get married. That should be a special moment you share with the one that you love and will share your life with till death do you apart. Just think before you act!
2006-06-13 18:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by lilyellowpimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question only, i do think people shoud get married and then have sex. When u are married u know for a fact that your heart is in it and most likely the other persons to. Having sex with just anyone is using your body and will catch up with u. Eventually u will feel dirty, Using your body like that is SAYING I HAVE A VOID THAT NEEDS TO BE FILLED, THE TEMPORARY GOOD FEEING OF SEX IS JUST SWEEPING IT UNDER THE RUG. Altho many people do it just for fun and experience and cause they like it, this means u like sex more than the person your with right? so what happened to caring and love?
2006-06-13 18:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so I didn't read all you had to say.
But I think from my experience, ( I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex) Just the thought of giving your whole self in every way to the one person you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with. I think it is a choice you make out of respect for yourself and your spouse.
2006-06-13 18:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by hips don't lie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your opinion, really, about what you want to do. I'm planning to losing my virginity WAAAAY before I get married because I am NOT going to friggin waste all that time just for some chick who's probably gonna be lousy at it anyway. So do yourself a favor and get some tail before it's too late
2006-06-13 18:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by War Pig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is wrong because you shouldn't have sex unless you are truly in love with that person.
2006-06-13 18:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by payne200024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You demand that people not throw their beliefs at you, but post your opinion in a public forum? Explain to me how that makes sense.
2006-06-13 18:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im all about the sex before marriage ;)
2006-06-13 18:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by leksa27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like my boyfriend...now, you made me realize to run away from my boyfriend...thanks.
2006-06-13 18:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by inthisskin22x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋