HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO
2006-06-13 10:54:57 · 17 answers · asked by Erika K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should you do? DON'T! Here is the 4-1-1: Sure, he's good looking, exciting, makes you feel all queasy inside. What is he thinking? Some kind of car, some kind of sport, some way to get a girl to do what he wants her to do... The problem is, if you have to sneak, then the situation is a bad situation. You already know this, or would not be asking for validation. Think of your goals for the future: college? good job? make your parents proud? Or: juvenile hall? drop out? pregnant? dead-end job? Each choice you make in life can lead you in one direction or another- only you can ultimately decide what your values are, and what goals you want to obtain. Just don't sell yourself short, don't compromise your goals, and don't make the mistake of thinking any boy is worth throwing you off-track. Do you want to pass his test of "are you cool enough?", or your own test of "am I good enough to get where I want to go in life?"
2006-06-13 11:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mollie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question. All I can say is, make your choice with the knowledge that if you do sneak out with him, he's going to try "something." I don't think he wants you to sneak out so he can take you to the zoo.
Another thing is safety. If something happens to you when you sneak out, who knows where you are? Your parents will be home sleeping.
If you're really uncomfortable tell him. If he understands, he's for you, else he's not for you.
2006-06-13 11:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by hangoutandtalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that if you're talking about sneaking out, you're still a teenager, in which case: Don't sneak out! It'll just get you into trouble with your family.
If this guy wants to spend time with you, he should come meet your parents and take you on proper dates. If he doesn't want to do those things, then no matter HOW much you like him, he's not worth it.
2006-06-13 10:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he needs you to SNEAK out of your house to do something with him, then he doesn't respect you at all girlfriend. You need to e-mail me so we can talk about this further, sounds fishy, don't want you to get hurt.... why can't he do something with you that requires him picking you up at your front door. doesn't want anybody to know where you will be, sounds like it to me. even if you don't pick my answer, still e-mail me girl. I will help as much as i can.
2006-06-13 11:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry_nocturnal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is you age? What is your BF age? I think if you have to sneak around there is a bigger problem.
2006-06-13 10:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by moe b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! Get some while you can, especially if you have a guy that's gonna take good care of the kitty... I say do it!
2006-06-13 10:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have to sneak around than theres something wrong
2006-06-13 10:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not. if he is going to disrespect your parents by asking you to sneak out, then what makes you think he'll respect you?
2006-06-13 10:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by sweetjumpshot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? if u r both adults & its a mutual understanding go on
2006-06-13 10:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do It If you wAnt To but remember u cAnt Change aNytHinG onCe It Has HaPpeN....
TopDyme
2006-06-13 10:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by topdime2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋