2006-06-13 10:50:50 · 40 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dunno, cuz not a Christian and have not come across sth like that...
2006-06-13 10:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by ezgisito 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think a lot of that depends on what it is you are fantasizing about. When I was a teen and young adult, I did fantasize and I was a Christian. I managed to stay a virgin until I was married at 25, so I don't think it did me or my soul any harm.
Now that I am older, the only danger I could see in it would be that you can think about it so much, get your hopes up and then be let down by the real act. In other words, as great as sex can be, sometimes it is better in your mind than in reality.
2006-06-13 10:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by BellaSara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a christian, you shouldn't need to fantisized about nothing. It is considered as adultery which is a sin. You are dwelling right into the path of God you shouldn't in this position of being tempted by fantisim. Jesus open a bible and read... IWhat's better than the word of God Dwelling in ur heart... =)
2006-06-13 10:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by dasalsaking908 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You have been given the ability to fantasize. You have also been given the ability to learn good from evil. You have been given a choice between the two, with the rewards and consequences of each spelled out for you. In being a Christian, it is you actions and reputation for kindness and humility that earn your rewards later. While it is written that to look upon a woman with lust is to commit adultry with her in your mind, to commit adultry is your mind without having looked upon the woman may be not be such a sin.
2006-06-13 10:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by mrkymrk64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing is a normal part of life. Our minds or thoughts aren't always on board with our religious beliefs. We fantasize, we dream, we even may think of a thought that is bad or harmful. Our character, who we are or whatever religion we choose, decides how we act on that thought. A fantasy is strictly that, something cool to think about, where you take that is up to your character.
2006-06-13 10:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Curt P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-13 10:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is OK to fantasize. When you are married, sex is a gift from God. Think about a fantasy as a preview of the great gift you will get when you are married.
2006-06-13 10:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave us the ability to fantisize so obviouly it is ok
2006-06-13 10:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by confuse_collegegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you're fantasizing about. If what you are thinking about is committing a sexual act with another person, and you are not married in the eyes of God, then no, it is not okay. Thinking about it is one thing: acting on it is another, and punishable.
2006-06-13 10:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Smartie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Thinking about something is as bad as doing it. Whether it's adultery or murder. Reread the Gospels. Start with Mathew.
2006-06-13 10:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! That is what makes us creative. NEVER let any religion tell you otherwise. It is completely normal and healthy to do this and it shows intelligence too!
2006-06-13 10:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋