my girlfriend is acting strange, she has been cold and distant from me lately. what is the problem and what can i do?
2006-06-13 10:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by lagunsrockx4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just from what you told us here, how can we guess? It may be sth you've said or done, or sth you've not done while it was expected!.. Tell her that you feel her getting out of your relationship and ask her what the problem is. This is how things happen in real world!
2006-06-13 10:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by ezgisito 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe its either....
1. shes having a problem with someting u did. talk to her and dont pester her with questions though. think about things u could have done to piss her off.
2. shes found another guy and doesnt want u anymore
3. shes PMSing so give her time right now
4. maybe shes over heard something about u talking about her or something
5. shes heard a rumor about u....
6. maybe its that she doesnt really know how to act around a guy that she really likes
7. she doesnt love u anymore.
8. problem or something that makes her nervous
ok i think thats just about it...........just give her some time and dont make her mad at u for some reason. lol girls get major mood swings about everything so chill. shell be back to normal in no time!
2006-06-13 17:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Peaches~n'~Cream*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may be disassociating from a trauma. Allowing you in could be very painful to her. Let her have space but, don't let her think your walking out of her life.
Let her know your not angry and only giving her breathing space. Tell her to let you know when she's ready to talk.
It is good to hear someone else believes friendship to be a responsibility to care.
Love is always the answer, Pandora
2006-06-13 20:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't pester her with questions, You can ask a once, twice, but if she's not talking, maybe she just isn't ready. It might not even be you, it could be work or something thats going on at home. You could ask her how those things are going and maybe a moment will come up when she wants to talk about whats bothering her. And please, don't automatically assume that its PMS
2006-06-13 17:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by lemonheads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Tell her if she can't talk to you, then write you a letter. Then give her a day or two to respond. Just give her some space to think
things though OK it will be alright!
2006-06-13 17:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by hi-bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and find out there is no telling why she is like that it may just be stress try and help any way you can even if it is just being there for her
2006-06-13 17:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by ArtLover9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space....maybe she is having doubts or problems that she don't want to talk to you about right now.....give her a little space and she will come around... Even if its bad news
2006-06-13 17:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by tashas33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to any good relationship - romantic, family, friend, or otherwise. Communicate to her how you're feeling, and be there to listen when she's ready to answer.
2006-06-13 17:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by gumdrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have found something out about you, or she did somethig bad. Talk to her, see if she will tell you.
2006-06-13 17:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by benfeb292004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time....like a week, then go to her and have a long conversation.....don't forget to get flowers and Haagendaz!!!
2006-06-13 17:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋