My boyfriend and I have been together since November, sleeping together since January. We are very much in love and since January we've been having sex everyday (usually twice a day). Does this ever get boring? We're moving in together this month and sometimes I worry maybe he's going to get bored.
2006-06-13 09:25:34 · 31 answers · asked by miss_angel_eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're kidding, right?
Now, hitting yourself over the head with a hammer twice a day, that could get boring. Having your kneecaps removed with an electric power drill, that would be waaaaaaaaaaaay boring. Not having sex for weeks at a time, that's so boring there's a special name for it, that's off the international standard UN-endorsed boredom-ometer and is now officially classified as "marriage". But sex twice a day? No, not boring. Not even slightly boring. In fact, really quite interesting and entertaining.
2006-06-13 09:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by scotsman 5 · 10⤊ 4⤋
Sex doesn't get boring. The acts during sex gets boring. Everyone has a "spicy" side waiting to get out. That's where fantasies come in. For example, if you did it missionary style all the time, every time, it may get boring. Mix things up and try some other positions. Introduce food products, in the tub, in the shower, in public (voyeurism). That sort of stuff. Whatever is your preference.
Having sex so often becomes a chore rather than a fun act. Instead of making sex an everyday occurrance, make it a once every two day occurrence and consider it as a "prize" or a "treat". That will put the spark back into sex.
2006-06-13 09:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if bored would be the right term. I think you can get into a sex rut where it just becomes kind of routine and you start to take it for granted. Right now you are still in the early stages of your relationship so enjoy the sex while you can but over time it will taper off. This will happen because when you first are together your body generates certain chemicals that give you a high, other wise known as lust. This chemical reaction gradually fades over time, it is just a scientific fact. Also over time the amount of responsibilities you each have in life will increase and the daily routine of life will take its toll. Don't let this scare you, just remember it is normal and that there is more to a relationship than just sex.
2006-06-13 09:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think bored is the word we're looking for... The key is, and this is tough, Keep your sex expermental... Dont just have sex the same way, everyday, twice a day, same position, etc... Try different things, different places, different ways, games, etc. There are so many things you can add to keep that sex new and exciting... I dont know how you and your partner feel about toys but its a whole another level of sex... Good luck
2006-06-13 09:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Joshie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe sex ever gets boring as long as both parties are willing to experiment a little with it. Dont be afraid to try new things together. If it's just the same 'ol sex all the time, then ofcourse it can get boring. If you keep him wondering what's next he'll never get bored!! IF he does... He's cheating... LOL
2006-06-13 09:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by drifet_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be mad if the guy talk about food and sports.. but talking about sex that much would probably irritate me. Coz it seems that the guy is only after sex and not about anything else. You will definitely disappoint a lady if you talk too much about sex unless you will find a lady or a girl who is fun of talking about sex, that would be alright.. I guess you just need to know the limitation of where/when you should stop, and try to be considerate too. OK? =) good luck!
2016-03-27 02:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't usually get bored from too much sex (it's like having too much money). They do get bored with having too much sex with the same woman all the time.
2006-06-13 09:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a touchy subject and everyone is different about that topic..some people have a very high sex drive while others are not as active. I would say as long as you both feel like it, then get it on...with a little romantic music on the back ground :0)
2006-06-13 09:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by arty_at 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me, never bored so long as the sex is either
emotional-passionate or wild animal-crazy. One fulfills the primal need for sex; the other meets the relational need for intimate human contact and relation. Communication is a big deal during either way.
2006-06-13 09:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by gigasrex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sex can mos def get boring but not always if your getting together everyday, sometimes twice...i think thats a good sign. i guess your should worry only if that stops or shortens. why don't you try to bring in things from the outside i.e. food! movies, loud music....
2006-06-13 09:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by tallpaulmwp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex is never boring even if your bored with the person you're having it with. We can fantasize just as well as you women. Maybe the question you should be asking is "Am I getting bored with him?" enough to even consider the subject?
2006-06-13 09:32:15 · answer #11 · answered by hmr_hed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋