question why do the good people always get heart broken?

Answer 1

To be very general, I think that "bad people" usually have had some sort of trauma and/or "heart break" in their past that affected them so much that they decided not to bother being good again. Bad behavior can be a defensive front for covering up insecurities, resentment and pain. But then again bad people usually know that their actions are bad and often time it's just the result of selfishness and nothing more.

Good people on the other hand tend to be resilient to bad things and traumas or they might deal with trauma in a more complex way hence it seems that they get heart broken more often. Being tuned in to your feelings and emotions and being a giving person is never a bad thing. Having people take advantage of this is.

Answer 2

They don't. To use the term always is a bit far fetched. If this is personal then you should have asked "Why am I unable to meet someone that won't break my heart"" If it's not personal then you should have asked "Why does it seem that good people get their heart broken?" Either way, the answer is the same, you will have your heart broken or you will break someone elses heart until you meet the right person. It's part of growing and learning. Without the heartbreak how would we know how not to treat others?

Answer 3

Good people think they can help those that have problems. A good hearted person will also see something positive, regardless how negative overall, in a person that most people write off pretty quickly.
The idea is that a good person can 'teach' a negative person how to be 'good'. But that takes years. Just as long as it does for an otherwise negative person to learn bad behaviors.

There's a trick to being a good person. You have to be good to yourself FIRST. Giving 100% of yourself to someone else all the time, will always leave you with nothing left over.
Remember, you have to love yourself in order to love someone else. One of the hardest lessons in life. However, not doing this is a learned behavior that is just as bad.

Answer 4

I think it is to be a good person you have to be sensitive to other peoples feelings so that makes u vulnerable to others opinions. If u were bad then you would not even care what anyone thought.

Answer 5

Bad people get there heart broken too...so quit whining about it.

Answer 6

Because they give too much. You need to learn how much is enough and that if your efforts are not being reciprocated, it's not worth your time and trouble. Relationships need to be 50/50 or someone is going to give, give, give and the other is going to take advantage of it. You need to meet someone that appreciates your efforts and puts as much effort into the relationship as you do. This includes love relationships and friendships.

Answer 7

Because good people tend to trust and give more benefit of the doubt than most people are worth. Hence, they open themselves up to being taken advantage of.

Answer 8

i think that good people tend to wear their heart on their sleeve. and are more open with their feelings. and i think that the "heart breakers" take advantage of that. but i dont think it can be blamed on just one person. we choose who we want to be in relationships wit, whether romantic or friendship. and i think we just have to choose those people a little better.

Answer 9

Because they have good hearts - if you were hard hearted, you wouldn't suffer, but I wouldn't suggest that as that would make you one of "them". I would rather be big hearted and take my chances than be cold and hard hearted and not.

Answer 10

Answer - because they never know when to cut their losses and just move on. In spite of their wishes, everything is not ok, and no, it is not going to get better. Sorry if the truth hurts.

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