How do i increase my ability to get an orgasm?

Question

I enjoy sex with my partner, but it is hard for me to get an orgasm

Answer 1

Try taking the lead.. your a women u know what feels good and u know what spots he needs to hit to get an orgasm so take the lead become a little more controlling in the the bed.. its a easy way to get what u want without hurting his feelings... and after a couple times he will no what postions u like more and he will start taking the lead back =)

Answer 2

Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina.

Answer 3

Assuming there are no physical factors limiting your ability
(A quick check up with your ObGyn or Md) Then its a relaxation thing..being able to relax and recognize your bodies signal..a willing partner who is patient and understanding will help.
Orgasm is not a destination..its a journey...have fun getting there.

Answer 4

Get last month's issue of Cosmopolitan - there's an article in there you'll need to read.

Answer 5

As long as I get mine, who cares?


Just kidding.

I'm sure you've tried the following...
relaxation
lots of foreplay
experimentation
role playing
watching porn

If you haven't tried any of that, give it a shot. It just might help.

Answer 6

Practice by yourself, find out what works best and communicate it to your partner.

Read Kama Sutra; need I say more...

Answer 7

well if u r a female then have him play with your clitoris more b4 u start if not then u have a problem u may have to experiment and try different things