What's the problem with black lazy men ?

Question

Black lazy men r men who don't take care of their responibilties.A responible black man is with the woman he got pregnant and takin care of his chil and the women.Could somebody please tell me some more advice???????????/

Answer 1

that happens with all men
not just black men

Answer 2

What you're describing is a cowardly man; not neccessarily lazy. But some men are cowards and lazy. I don't think it's laziness that keep a man from taking care of his responsibilites. He definitely is a troubled man. If you know someone like that, PRAY for him. Don't judge him. He seriously needs help. And that type of man is not limited to black men. You do yourself a disservice to generalize like that. If that's what you think of black men then that's the type of man you will attract.

There are so MANY beautiful, responsible black men out here.

Answer 3

does that make them different than white or latin lazy men? and you mention something about the black responsible man takin care of his child and women. How many women is it ok for the black responsible man to be with while this is all going on? Latin and White men that I know aren't typically allowed to do that. Now I need some advice... what the hell are you talking about? lol.

Answer 4

Wow.. I think you may need to reword your question. After that you may want to ask yourself what the color of a man's skin has to really do with the behavior of a man. Girlfriend, lazy men come in all forms. For that fact, women do too~
I have a sense that you may have a hard time hearing the advice you are looking for and the reason being is that after reading your question all that got my attention what the "black lazy" comment.
Take care. Hope you see what I am trying to say.

Answer 5

The problem with lazy black men is lazy black women. Black women have learned to settle which is the worst thing you can do in a choosing a mate or a "Baby's Daddy", We as black women have become to lazy to find and seduce the good black men, that's how you end up with lazy black men.

Answer 6

This is a terrible issue in the black community but I implore you that this black lazy man problem is not just the man's problem it starts with the decisions of the black woman. (Not placing blame key word starts) Some(not to generalize) Black women really don't know the meaning of what a good man are thus leading them to men of poor quality not just black men but every creed. There are so many societal factors from social racism to mass media's YOU BLACK NI*&AS networks portraying us as well your perception, lazy black men. Women measure men by superficial measures such as education, money, cars, rims, clothes, etc and not on the factors that would make a good mate and lets a woman know her man will take care of her and her son’s and daughters. Secondly, Black women allow black men to act anyway they choose, calling it Urban culture, or Thug culture, he’s a drug dealer so attractive, he a pimp, so attractive, he in a gang so attractive, he disrespects women, so attractive???? As long as women view the negative stereotypical qualities as attractive qualities there is no hope for good men. If a good man has to adapt negative ways to attract women more than likely he will (Buying dumb 28 inch rims, 2000.00 dollar watches, Platinum chains 2000 dollar outfits and yet still no savings, investments no IRA????). If our women would quit complaining and hold their men up to the standard women should expect there wouldn't be so many fatherless black children, not as many men growing up thinking its okay to have baby mama's instead of wives just like their fathers and grandfathers, not as many young beautiful black girls accepting the baby mama roll instead of being a mans wife. In plain simplicity, if our women would stop complaining about lazy black men all the while spreading their legs and reproducing for them this problem would come to a screeching halt. Men love women and adapt to what they feel women want. (Men act this way because in general that is what black women have deemed appealing)

Answer 7

Just because he isn't with the mother doesn't mean he is lazy, not if he taking care of his child. We as woman can't make a man, we can help him grow but we can make a man or be a man. We have to be strong enough for ourselves as well as our child (children) if that man decides not to play his role. Girl hold your head up and be strong for you and yours. What if he has more than 1 baby mama, he can't be with them all. Then what if was with the baby mama and taking care of his child, but cheats, or is on the downlow (gay), or beat the hell out of you....THEN WHAT? Men don't have the responsibility that woman have and especially not to Children. Men who take care of there kids are wonderful and commend every one of them. You have them in every race.

Answer 8

you get lazy men in every race ! Lazy women also!

The point is your man left you in a bad situation therefore I would claim benefits once the child is born!! and surround yourself with people who truly love you like family

Answer 9

You are generalizing, and that is showing your ignorance.

Not all black men are lazy, and one day, you will realize that.


Remember, you do not know ALL black men.....

Answer 10

Well I don't know what the problem with black lazy men is but, are u single. If you are contact me.. and not all black guys are lazy. U just offended me.

Answer 11

that about sums it up. an even more responsible black man is the one who just robbed the store to get money for his jump off and his 6 kids