He drinks to excess and is an "angry" drunk with delusional characteristics when drinking. I have already tried "no drinking and you can stay" trick!
2006-06-13 08:47:35 · 11 answers · asked by Buffaloed in Charleston 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He is not on the lease, only I am, and I have tried the "if you drink again you're out" trick". He is making hard on my other roommate as well.
2006-06-13 08:54:44 · update #1
This is a non-sequitar. It is unfortunate that his mother died recently, but that has nothing to do with his eviction. You have every right to a peaceful life, and if he isn't fitting in with that, you can certainly boot him out. Yes, he will pull the 'poor me' face, and say that you are being mean to him when he is at his most vulnerable, but you and I know that's a crock.
Get on with your life. You'll actually be doing him a favour by making him face up to the consequences of his behaviour.
2006-06-13 08:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This depends on where you live. In some states it doesn't matter weather or not he is on the lease as long as he has "established residency". Usually this will mean having at least one utility bill at that address, filing taxes from that address, or even just having it on his driver's license. Look into what your rights are under the law in your area, and if you are within your rights to do so have the locks changed.
2006-06-13 18:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's on the lease and hasn't done anything to violate the terms laid out therein, then an eviction isn't even a possibility. i would just throw all his stuff out the window.
2006-06-13 15:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by parepare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should follow your heart in this situation. How recent was the death? I think you could give him a month after his mother died (my husband's mother recently died too), give him a little time to find a new place, but put a firm date in his mind.
Hope that helps.
2006-06-13 15:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDIE6597543879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the right to live in peace, he needs to grow up and act responsibly, if he can't then yes, evict him!!!!
2006-06-13 16:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by OC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an eviction may be the way to go. just go ahead and start the proceedings. its hard to live with someone like that.
2006-06-13 15:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for him to go. And yes, unfortunately, you will have to go through an eviction process.
2006-06-13 16:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by rowet@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the paperwork; if he is an angry drunk; you're in danger.
2006-06-13 19:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by buzzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends has he laid a hand on you or sexually harassed you when drunken if yes then of course but if not then heres what you do go to home depot and get some guy to change the locks for u use wat u know
2006-06-13 15:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by wolfmegasxlr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is that bad then you should be confident and kick him out because if he cant respect you and your needs then he does not need to be there.
2006-06-13 15:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋