Full time Mommy of 2, thinking of going back to work?

Question

How hard was the transition, for those of you who have done it?

My kids are 4 and 17 mos.

Answer 1

the easiest thing i have ever done!! you will be so much happier and a better mom to your kids when you do see them, instead of always being stressed out. My work is kinda like a huge break everyday that I get to go to while my daughter is at school! you will love it!!

Answer 2

Everyone is different. I have three children and am currently in school full time and work full time. I do all my classes on-line after the kids are in bed. It's hard, but with strong support, can be done easly. If your attending classes on campus, it's a little harder, but at the same time its good for you because your getting out of the house and meeting new people and spending a little time away from the kids. Pace yourself and don't take on more than you can handle and you will do fine. And always remember to breathe.

Answer 3

I have a 2.5 year old toddler and when I decided to go back to work at first it was very hard because I really did miss him and I really did not like the job I took.

Now that I have a job I love and my son goes to Kindercare everyday until 12pm then his dad picks him up. He loves interacting with other kids and learning, which made the transition for us all easier.

All you can do is try and nothing is permenant, but try to give it a few months before deciding if it is right for you or not. Good luck!

Answer 4

It shouldn't be hard as long as you prepare them for it. Try getting your 4 yr old familiar with the idea that mommy is going back to work. Talk about it and ask him what he thinks. If he has any fears or worries about you going back to work, try to fix them. Let him know that you will always come home from work (that is usually the biggest fear with little kids is that mommy won't come back). As for your youngest one, I think if he sees that his big brother/sister is okay with mommy being gone then he will be fine. Also make sure that the person who takes care of them while you are at work is someone they are comfortable with--not just any stranger at a daycare or something like that.

Answer 5

Well I can say all I have ever wanted to do was be a stay-at-home mom, but unfortunately our financial situation has never allowed it. My parents were there to help me out with child care, but for some reason it never made it any easier for me cause I wanted to be the one there for my children. I guess if I'd had or have a career I enjoyed or even remotely liked I think it might have made things a little easier, but honestly all I want to do is be home. I think if you go back to work make it part-time in the beginning and then go full time if you can.

Answer 6

The transition was not that hard for me but it was quite hard for my children not having mommy around all the time.

My best suggestion to you is to find a day care provider that your children like ( relative or friend) and go from there. Let your children stay with them for about a month and then move them to a larger daycare center that has children their own age to play with then they should be fine.

Answer 7

Well, I amn't a parent, but my mom went through the same thing. When I was seven she went back to school after 14-15 years. I didn't know what would happen at the time because I was still a kid. After going to school, she had less time for us, and school stressed her out and she was very tired after studying. After she graduated she got a job. Now I don't get to see her and she is always stressed out from work, and sometimes she cries from the stress and co-workers. All-in-all you could go to school, but always remember your children, and don't get a job because then there wont be anytime for you to spend with your kids and then they will grow up missing a part of them that only a parent can fill in. Your love and devotion towards your kids is strong and important for them when they grow up, don't forget that.

Answer 8

I went back to work when my daughter was 10wks old. I always felt that the daycare woman was raising her..I never got used to it. I took her out of daycare at 9 months and my husband switched to working nights,and I went to part-time. I think part-time is ok, if you need the money, but keep in mind, you can never get back the time you miss with them. I think it's better to wait until they are in school full time.

Answer 9

It is somewhat difficult at the beginning, getting in the habit of getting the kids ready in the morning to take them to the babysitter, however once you get used to the routine you will love it! even the kids will love it to go to nursery/ preschool meet with others...

Answer 10

It is difficult because you feel guilty but if the family need money or you need to work because you want to, do it. It will really help you with self confidence.