WHEN WE START GOING OUT IT'S WAS ALL GOOD WE LAUGH WE JOKE AND GO OUT. BUT NOW IT'S LIKE WE ALWAYS FIGHTING EVERY TIME I USE TO CALL AND ASK HIM TO COME OVER HE COME. NOW I CAll i get no answer or i get im busy.
2006-06-13 08:30:31 · 21 answers · asked by ms.lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's busy because he's not interested anymore, you said yourself when he was interested he was right there. you are basically fighting because he doesn't want the same thing you do, i'd back off, quit calling, make sure you are busy next time he calls (if he does) if he doesn't then there is your answer. if you become a little more unavailable then the chase is on again and apparently he's one of those guys that likes the chase but loses interest once he catches you. i'd move on though, who needs those kinds of games? if what you want is a serious relationship this is not the guy for you.
2006-06-13 08:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's going on. One of the most important things in a relationship is communication. Tell him you miss seeing him and laughing with him. He might just be tired of always coming when you call. Do something new with him. Relationships can die out. Sometimes you run out of things to say, or you suddenly don't have as much in common. Then you find out if your love for one another is enough. This happens. It's not your fault or his fault. Just talk to him.
2006-06-13 15:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a lot of things. He might be losing interest, or he might be having problems that have nothing to do with you.
You need to talk to him about it. Tell him you miss how you guys used to laugh and joke and have fun and you want to figure out why you don't do that any more. If he doesn't want to talk about it, then you might have to break up with him. No point hanging around if he's not going to make an effort.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 15:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is done being a boyfriend. It could be a series of things, he could be bored or maybe he feels cramped, like he spends too much time with you, maybe theres another girl hes got is eye on. Most importantly you have to have a talk with him and find out whats going on with him. You might not like the answer he gives you but you have to know and if it is fixable then you two can work it out, if not-then cut your losses and move on. Relationships should never be hard or too much unnecessary work.
2006-06-13 15:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Panthers Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to break up with you and doesn't know how to tell you. Maybe you should consider asking him, what is wrong. Maybe he's depressed. Maybe not. Prepare yourself to move on. Perhaps you two have grown apart. Do you think you're trying to hold on to something that you know isn't there (anymore).Don't stay in the relationship because it's familiar. Move on.
2006-06-13 15:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him to see what is going on? Communication is the key to all relationships! If he will not talk... then give it time... don't call or see him.... you may hurt but he will come around. Good luck.
2006-06-13 15:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by chellebeth75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend and ask him whats wrong. Be honest with him about how you are feeling and ask him to be honest with you about how he's feeling. Talking to him is the only way to find out whats really going on with him.
2006-06-13 15:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to be with you anymore. he's either found someone new or just doesn't want you. that doesn't mean you're not good at all, it just means he's no good and doesn't apprieciate you and didn't have the balls to tell you it's over. move on with your life and don't give a crap bout him. there will be better things for you.
2006-06-13 15:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him if that doesn't work say maybe we should see other people since we are always fighting.
2006-06-13 15:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Drama Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's over it. Talk to him and find out for sure then move on.
2006-06-13 15:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋