2006-06-13 08:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, but no. guy friends are the ones you keep as friends so you don't hurt there feelings that you aren't dating them.. :)
2006-06-13 08:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost all of these answers have hit the nail on the head. If you're a guy friend to a girl, you might as well be a eunuch. If you're a guy and you hit it off with a woman and you two get along and laugh at the same stupid jokes, etc. , you better make that sexual move right away, because if you don't and, say, a month goes by, you're now her "friend" and sex is no longer in the picture. There are only a few ways a guy can be "friends" with a girl: He's currently fcuking her, he WANTS to fcuk her and think he will eventually or he's gay. no guy is going to just hang out with a girl every weekend or during the week just because he likes her and not get any. And women want a guy like that because they can go out with these guys and be sluts and get drunk and talk about how horny they are and they know that the guy won't do anything - except go home and beat one off. I had a relationship like this, a woman who wanted to make plans for the weekend and go do stuff and hang out but that was it. And I had to listen to her stories about how bad this guy she was seeing treated her or how this guy was cheating on her or how this guy wanted to fcuk her or how this guy at a party grabbed her azz and tried to get a little taste or how she couldn't find a decent guy, that all men wanted was a piece, blah blah blah. and to make it worse, a couple of times, after we smoked pot and had a drink, she got a little loose and gave me a big tongue kiss in her apartment, realized what she had done and told me I had to go, literally pushed me out of the door, afraid of what she might do. After that happened the second time (and she told me she thinks of me like a brother) I told her don't call me anymore to hang out. If we see each other at a bar, then we see each other, But all of this planning to go out together and doing stuff was like having a girlfriend without the "fringe benefits".She used to get mad if I stood her up or cancelled at the last minute! i had to remind her that we're not dating and that if she was a guy and I did this, it would be no big deal, because we're just "friends". And I couldn't even meet other women while i was hanging out with her because other women would see us together and think we were a couple and avoid us. I told her to find a gay man to be her male friend because that's the only way that arrangement could work.
So to answer your question, I'd say no. The women only want their guy "friends" to be friends, nothing more. and the guys only hang out with them because they think maybe their might be a payoff down the road. Eventually they wise up, find a woman who wants them as a friend AND and lover and the first woman stands there thinking, "Man, Bill was really a great guy, when I think about it. I wonder if I should have..."
2006-06-19 14:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a 1-2 month window of "talking" to a girl. If everything is going good and you are not dating yet, then you are in the "friend zone". Its sometimes very difficult to get out of this "zone" depending on the girl. Pretty much dont take your time or she will just start seeing you as just a friend and/or find somebody else.
2006-06-13 15:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Fenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! Girls rarely date guy friends. If a girl sees you as a Friend you might as well leave your d*ck home because that is how she sees you. You are the boy who will do all the boyfriend work with out getting any boyfriend pay.
2006-06-13 15:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i always did, actually they were the ones i fell for the easiest. when i could be friends with a guy i got to sit back and see how he really treated other females, and besides, if you can trust your guy friends with all your secrets than there is no reason you cant trust them as a boyfriend as well. Unless of course you have a tiny penis. the you're better off as being "just friends"
2006-06-13 15:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by shortyred37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. By the way, all the guy friends you have want to be with you. Trust me. ALL of them. Guys are not friends with girls. Especially when they're hot. They're just waiting for an opportunity.
2006-06-13 15:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Chris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and all but 1 ended terribly. The 1 that didn't end bad I'm married to. We have been married for 6yrs now.
2006-06-13 15:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ....
i thin that when you are gonna date him (in the FUTUREEEE) first you feel like special when you are with him and your relation is too good ,too ..maybe thats what i think . i have a guy friend and i say to him always "my love " or stuffs like that and he says to me the same but its just my friend IS THIS WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU ??
2006-06-13 15:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen cases where some do. It all depends on the situation.
2006-06-13 15:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by Morpheus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do. i tend "to take care of them" or help them out like for homework or something of that nature.
2006-06-13 15:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋