ok me and my ex-bf broke up about three months ago and now his cuz and i are kind of talkin but not that serious b/c he has a gf right now. is that wrong for me to be talkin to his cuz?
2006-06-13 08:20:22 · 29 answers · asked by juicy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that if u really loved your ex at on time then just that love would tell u that dating relitives . is not right it can just send bad thoughts about you .
2006-06-13 08:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...Honey let me notify you....yes it is very trashy of you to talk to his cousin especially if yall talkin about later being together as a couple. I'm not trying to be mean but if he is not being JUST a friend you need to think about what you are doing. Also it depends on how close you and your ex-bf was.
2006-06-13 08:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he has a girlfriend and is talking to you then what kind of guy does that say he is? Also of you two got serious, would it be weird for any of you to see each other since it's all in the same family? You just have to ask yourself if this guy is worth the trouble or are you better off looking outside of this family?
2006-06-13 08:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Heather W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothing wrong with talking to his cousin...
But are you planning to get more involved? If yes then there might be other problems you might want to consider.
Like is the ex really good friends with the cousin? If he is it will spoil that relationship, but if he is not...then you have nothing to worry about anyway.
Come to think about it though...he is an ex...you don't care about him anymore...so why worry?
Now you might want to worry about the cousins gf...if she finds out you might be 'poaching' she might come after you !!!
2006-06-13 08:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl. You're fine. His cousin is just another guy you're talking to. Who cares? As long as you and your ex are over for sure, be as flirtacious as possible. You never know when your life may end. I think if you really put your mind to it, you can do anything , and that includes [if you like him that way] go out with his cousin. Have fun!
2006-06-13 08:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by NewLondonChic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty simple...if you have to ask then you probably already know the answer. You know that because him and your ex are related that right there is drama!!! Now add to that the fact that he has a girl too...even more drama!!!! I guess the better question is are you looking for a good man to be with or are you looking for drama?
2006-06-13 08:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by maliee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more wrong for his cuz to be talking to you! If it has only been a few months.... you better stay "just friends" for a while or it will cause a lot of hard feelings
2006-06-13 08:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by kspersian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, only because he has a girlfriend. And even if he didn't, it depends on how close his cuz was to your ex. Because guys have this unwritten rule, which girls should too, that you don't date your friends ex's. At least for a while.
2006-06-13 08:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he finds out, he'll definitely feel violated! If his cousin has a girlfriend, then why are you talking to him? You should probably just get out of the whole situation. It'd be less stressful and you wouldn't have to worry about hurting your ex or ruining his cousin's relationship.
2006-06-13 08:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not exactly wrong to date your ex's cuz, or bro, or amigo; but it's really, really bad manners. I would never do it. Expand your world and seek out new friends.
Sometimes women feel comfortable talking to their ex's friends and family because it makes them feel connected to their ex. Be aware.
2006-06-13 08:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋