how can i get over a breakup?

Answer 1

Now is the time to lean on your friends. Spend time with them doing things you enjoy. Be good to yourself, work on anything you have wanted to improve about yourself, i.e. getting in shape, learning to paint, decorating, etc. Also, when you can't be with friends do something you enjoy doing alone. You need to pamper yourself and reassure yourself that your life is not over and you will love again. Just don't rush it. Also, reflection is helpful and will prepare you for your next relationship.

Also, stay open you never know what tomorrow holds.

Answer 2

it seems like everyone is not taking u seriusly ...but I think that because u asked the question in this kind of environment you are really trying everything u can to get over him. You will have good ays and bad day ... as time goes by you will see the light at the end of the tunnel but the best thing for you to do is start standing on your own feet. Be your own person and even though some nights you'll feel crippled because he is not around tell yourself that you will make it. We all do. I am not sure how old you are, how long you were in the relationship ... but replacing him with someone else is never a good idea. Get busy, call the friends you haven't hear in a while, spend smetime at the gym, pamper yourself ... tlak about it because it helps a lot and compare your experience to other people's experiences ...
keep in touch ...good luck!

Answer 3

Hmm, How long was the relationship?

The old saw of "Time heals all wounds" is really true. The sense of loss comes from looking back as what was and forgetting that the future holds more interestng and exciting opportunities.

There are natural process as you go through the grieving process. Just remember that relationships are like busses: if you missed this one, the next one will be here in 15 minutes.

If you are a spiritual person you can sense that this is part of your spiritual growth and learning how to choose wisely.

So stay active and do things with friends that keeps you out with others.

Answer 4

There is a certain saying " if you love something set it free. If it returns its yours to keep and if it does not it never was yours". In the same manner as the quote - breakups are a part of one life. It may just turn out to be a blessing in disguise with the right person in your life soon entering it. I know its easier said then done - but quit brooding over the break up as the clock cannot be reversed. Accept things as they are and don't look back.

Answer 5

Well hun- that honestly depends on how you view the break up. Nothing really helps except time. Make sure you are not sitting at home and thinking about it all day long. That makes it worse and takes more time to get over the person. GO out and have fun- just don't do anything you will regret. If you want to tell me more about it I am sure I can help more. Just send me an email.

Answer 6

Be easy on yourself as you feel all the feelings that come along with a break-up. Respecting where your at emotionally will begin your healing process. writing in a journal often, I know really helps, it brings clarity to a rather confusing matter. Also keeping friends near during the hard times will prove to be of great support to you. Take care and I do hope you feel better soon~

Answer 7

breakups aren't something you can get over right away. Sometimes it takes a while. You have to take it one day at a time.

Answer 8

Well, everyone knows that getting over a break up is hard, but you got to accept it. Get rid of every picture and/or things your ex gave you. Or go out and meet new people and have fun. Don't jump into a new relationship though, just to get over your first, that's bad!! Hope this helps.

Answer 9

Whatever you do, don't find someone else right away, as going into a rebound relationship will only result in another breakup.

Either try getting back together with the person, or try to slowly forget the relationship.

Answer 10

Spend time with your family and/or friends doing thing that you love to do. Don't dwell on the past, take one day at a time, and remember there are plenty of othe fish in the sea.