do you think that is ok for me that I am 15 and I am going out with a22?

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Answer 1

no it is not ok - not at all - my neice did that I told her she was making a mistake - didnt listen and her mother didnt care. stayed with him married him even she was happy until she turned 18 then he dropped her like a sickness and hooked up with another 15 year old. I am sure at 15 you think you know best trust me you do not. I do not mean to come down hard on you but this one kind of touches home with me. a man 22 who has a sexual relationship with a 15 year old like's kids and sorry no matter how old you think you are 15 is a child. I am sorry but this is wrong and we try hard to keep our children out of the hands of these evil men harming our children but you know it is so hard when our kids go running to them. You tell me if you had a sister lets say 13 and she told you she had a boyfriend who is 20 would you think it was ok?

Answer 2

Truthfully, no. There is so much difference in maturity between a 15 year old and a 22 year old. And , hopefully, you are not intimate and living in the US, because if you are, he is breaking the law. I am all for love, but you have to be smart about it. It would be different if he was 30 and you were 22, but 15 is far too young. Date boys your own age.

Answer 3

Most of the time, this shows that somethings wrong with the guy but in some cases, the girl (which you probably are) is very mature and can relate to people of that age. If you Love this guy then it really doesn´t matter if he´s 22 (just make sure the cops don´t find out! my ex went to jail...)

Answer 4

As a mother of a 25 yr old son and a 17 yr old daughter, I am against the age difference. Its one thing to fall in love, because love is blind, its another to have things in common. Your life experiences thus far are very limited. You have so much to learn about yourself. A 22 yr old person has already gone thru 1st time loves, 1st drink???, High school, Graduation, etc. Its not common to have enought in common to have an intelligent conversation. You should be enjoying your HS years with pp who are experiencing them along with you. Not someone who has been there, done that, end of discussion. I wish you well in your endeavors but feel that the difference is much too much . 7 years age diff at age 50 almost has no bearing, but 15 & 22........ alot of changes happen in your life in those years. My advice, keep it friendly and thats all. Life is too short to miss your HS years tending to someone older who has already done it. Life should be exicting. Enjoy it with your hs buddies. Best to you and Be Careful!!

Answer 5

It might be alright for you but it doesn't say much for him.A 22 year old who wants a 15 year old is called a pedophile.You see them on NBC all the time.I know that boys your age tend to be immature but a 22 yr.old on your level is even more immature.Why can't he get a girl his own age.Wait until your older b/c this guy isn't what you need.He's attracted to children.You may be very mature but he's still a pedophile

Answer 6

No, I do not think it is a good idea...the 22-year-old might try to do something that you're not ready for. I know older guys seem more mature, but a lot of times they aren't. Try to date someone within your own age range, you'll have more in common with a 15 y/o guy than a 22 year old guy.

Answer 7

Absolutely not. You may be a beautiful person both inside and out, but a 22 year old who seeks companionship with someone of your age is actually looking for someone to be subservient. You have so much time to grow up that you should not let someone who has self esteem issues to force you to throw away your innocence.

Answer 8

since you asked....i'll tell you. No, i don't think it's ok. And it matters not if you're the male or a female (or the same sex, for that matter). 15 yo's and 22 yo's are coming from two entirely different places......15 yo's still have a lot of emotional growing to do. (although, maybe so does your 22 yo). regardless they've been sexually mature quite a bit longer than you have. stick with guys/girls...whatever(!) closer to your own age, is my advise.

Answer 9

Nooooo, there is nothing wrong with you, but there is something wrong with the 22 yr old. Imagine yourself dating a 9 year old. See what I'm saying. Run from this man. He's a pedophile who cannot deal with women his own age. You will only last a short time then you will become older and he only likes younger girls. Run Run Run

Answer 10

No. If you like this guy, that's fine, but you need to tell him you can't date him right now. Seven years is a big difference when you're in high school. Your maturity levels, experiences, knowledge, and mentality are completely different. If you're twenty however, and he's twenty seven, that's not a problem. Tell him if he wants to, he can wait five years, but honestly, I'd just find someone else. He's not practical and certainly not a safe, responsible choice right now.