What are some positive outlets for a child with anger?

Question

He has bullies in school, and his father is incarcerated.

Answer 1

You need to set a good example on positive ways for him to vent his anger. Encourage him to talk to you about his feelings, and you do the same with him. Let him know its ok to be angry but not to harm anyone or anything. Let him be creative like drawing, writing, or even some form of martial arts. Sometimes kids want to be noticed and seek attention so make sure he gets enough attention from you and do what you can to keep him and his father communicating.

Answer 2

Do you make a point to emphasize all of the good things he does? Don't concentrate so strongly on the bad. He is probably trying to get attention and is getting it the wrong way. Do things he likes and if he can do them without showing anger reward him with positive remarks. I don't want to say reward him with gifts. If you do that he will expect something every time. Do "special" things, like a trip somewhere after he has built up enough positive remarks. Explain that good things come of good behavior. He will be more excited to hear how happy your are with him than anything you could give him. Never compare what his father has done to what he may be doing. Keep it simple no matter how hard it seems. I think you will see a change.

Answer 3

Poor kid needs guidance. He needs to be taken out of that environment. Angry kids are the ones who are not acknowleged. His feelings are not analyzed. When does he become angry? Why? This boy needs competivness in order to feel in control. Sports, pets, hobbies, (karate, crafting, painting, skating...dancin..etc) Feeling bad and buying him stuff doesnt help him. Be persistant, but with moderation. Give him space and time to adapt to a new environment. He needs to express himself. Give him a chnace by asking him how he feels, then make compromises. I CANNOT TELL YOU HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO HAVE PARENT INVOLVEMENT IN THIER CHILDRENS' LIVES. Be sure that he has someone to look to. You want a bright and successful future for the child, you cant be lazy and selfish. Children learn best by example.

Answer 4

Talk to him let him know how much he is loved and that you are there for support. Get him active in sports, cracking a bat or busting some karate moves can really let him vent his frustration in a good way.

Answer 5

well the way i see it NONE you should really look at why the child is angry, where does their anger come from, why, why, why, please dont blame the child because theres definately something else going on!!! they are really trying to reach out to you ??? oh one more thing put him in sports and let him seriously hurt some one I CANT BELEIVE THE MORONS WHO ANSWERED THAT WAY

Answer 6

Big Brother & Sisters...
If he doesnt get help,, you will be the one suffering in the long run.. I have seen it time & time again... single parents, who have tried every avenue, always end up being the ones who get the angry directed at them.

Answer 7

Believe it or not, Karate. Karate teaches discipline and is very positive. Talk to a karate instructor about what is going on and maybe he/she can help you.

Answer 8

Have him play sports. He can get his aggression out in a healthy way.

Answer 9

Try letting him talk and you listen. This won't be resolved in one day either.

Answer 10

sports like football and lacrosse should do it. keep him active so he can let out all his energy out towards something fun and rewarding.