Im in a relationship now of 6 months with my boyfriend. We say i love you to each other but i have explained to him that im not fully in love with him, i love him as in i care for him a lot, dont want to split etc... Ive recently come in contact with an ex boyfriend of about a year and 4 months, ive thought of him after we broke up and kept everything hes ever given me like notes and gifts and pictures. i still feel that i am in love with him but i love my boyfriend now. i dont want to risk losing my ex boyfriend again if i broke up with my boyfriend. but i dont excatly want to break up with my boyfriend either. Im confused on how i feel and what i should do any advise??
2006-06-13 08:07:39 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK I just went through a situation where my boyfriend left me because his ex ccame back into his life..I feel so miserable without him and i feel sick to my stomach...You need to be careful about what youdo..It could really hurt your boyfriends feelings..There must of been a reason why you broke up with your ex..so why are you wanting to go back out with him? AND if your not sure you dont love your boyfriend then dont lead him on..you just reallly need to think
2006-06-13 08:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All that means you're confused over what you want in a partner and in your long term plans for the future.
Loving two people is called polyamory, which is neither unhealthy nor bad
What you need to do is break up with BOTH of these guys until you can sort out your own life, because until you can come to terms with hurting either one of them, or having them both go along with this three-way relationship, you're going to remain confused and wind up hurting both of them as well as yourself.
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2006-06-13 08:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is leave everyone alone. You need to get alone and think about what's going on. Its not fair to have someone in your life under false pretenses. What you're carring is called baggage and if you don't let it go you will carry it into another relationship and the result: is the current situation that you're in right now.
2006-06-13 08:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some!!!
2006-06-13 08:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by cubfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there did that and all i can say is it is one of the hardest situations to be in. Not to get weird but i was in the middle of sex with one and called him the other guys name so be careful.
2006-06-13 08:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three sum
2006-06-13 08:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by ajcoop2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋