What should I do I have a boy friend who loves me but he is going to be gone this whole summer should I bump him and go with his friend who lives up the road from me??????
2006-06-13 07:58:54 · 31 answers · asked by taylornicolette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, NO...
Please don't be selfish and go ripping his heart out!
Get satisfaction any other way you can this summer so you can have the highest gratitude from him when he returns. It'll be a beautiful thing and worth the wait.
Remember ...you get what you pay for in life.
Don't be cheap...especially with those you care about.
All the best!
2006-06-13 07:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your worries, it appears that you really do not love him. Too bad or else you won't be thinking of going after his friends while he's away. What happened to telephone? You can communicate with him everyday until he comes back. Take note, it really ain't that easy to find a guy who really loves his girl. You may be on the road to blowing up a good relationship. Think twice before you leap, ok?
2006-06-13 08:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Saintpi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question you need to ask your self "Do you love your boyfriend? Is he worth waiting for? If not then you should consider break up with him. That way if he should find out you went out on him (cheating) it won't be a big deal. I would find something to do over summer that way time will go by faster and before you know it he will be back home.
Good luck.....
2006-06-13 08:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just hang out with his friend up the street but don't start anything with him because it could get your boyfriend really mad. Then you'll break up with him, him and your current BF would fight and never be friends again and your current BF would hate you from then on. So I'd say hang out with the guy up the road but just make it friends. Do stuff with other friends so that it's not as personal and you don't get specifically attracted to him.
2006-06-13 08:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by I want my *old* MTV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA WHOA WHOA
NO WAY dont go out with his friend!!!! that will hurt him so ******* bad no dont do that
i think if u really love him then dont break up with him
but if its just a fling or cute boyfriend, then wait for him to come back from summer break so his whole summer isnt ruined
good luck!
luv jess
2006-06-13 08:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are talking about serious relation then it doesn't matter that he is going out for summer. You should sit and think seriously what you are looking for in your life. If you are not over you shouldn't do this. The second thing to think about your self he loves what about you. Don't do any thing that you have to regret. If he is your true love talk to him that it is hard to live for me this is time I can't handle without you. Please take me with you or stay with me or solve this problem.
2006-06-13 08:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your boyfriend? If you're even asking your self this question, then you probably don't. There's no point in staying in the relationship unless you feel like you COULD (not necessarily will) spend the rest of you life with him. If you do end up breaking up with him, do not under any circumstances date his friend! That's the lowest thing an ex could ever do!
2006-06-13 08:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is do you love him?
if he really loves you he will be crushed if your breaking up with him, and a summer isn't really all that long.
going with someone just because they are handy is not the way to go about things in my opinion.
follow your heart...ask yourself will you be happier with guy a or guy b
will you miss guy a while hes gone
will you end up cheating on guy a if you don't break up with him
make a pro con list and see what option wins out.
be honest with him and yourself and forgoodness sakes follow your heart first and you head a close second
2006-06-13 08:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-13 08:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by pulchritudinous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're getting some and enjoying yourself. You should make sure he knows though so he can have a good summer too.
2006-06-13 08:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋