My boyfriend is away for 2 weeks in Europe and I miss him like crazy. I am so use to being with him everyday and now that he's no there I miss him. I get to talk to him once a day for 10 minutes but everytime I have to get off the phone I feel depressed. Anything that could help these feelings?
2006-06-13 07:30:57 · 29 answers · asked by Ashlee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and I'm not clingy we have been dating for four years and I am madly in love with him he is my best friend that is why I am having a hard time with it.
2006-06-13 07:35:26 · update #1
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2006-06-13 07:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband for almost 10 years is stationed in Afghanistan for 12 months. He's been gone since January. I'm raising our 2 1/2 year old and our 6 month old by myself. My family is on the other side of the country. If I can do it, so can you! I'm spending this time reflecting on myself and our family. I'm trying to see how we can make it better and prosper more. I really believe absence makes the heart grow fonder! Try to keep busy and get some things done that you normally don't have the time to do because you're always with him. Volunteer somewhere, help your community or reconnect with your parents!! Spend the time wisely because missing him just isn't productive!! You'll be a better you when he gets back! Take care!
2006-06-13 14:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by sophiensamsmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boy was in the army for 3 years, sweetie i can relate to missing your boy. Time will fly when you keep urself busy. The thing i used to do is plan things to do when he gets back. That helps alot. For the depressed feelings, i'm sure it makes him feel that way too and you dont want two depressed people in a relationship. Cheer up,.. you kno he's gonna come home soon,.. plus when he does get back... ur reunion will be that much better. You dont know what you got until you miss it. Resist feelings of sadness... Instead, think about the things you guys will do once he gets back. wink wink.
2006-06-13 14:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Abstract Expression 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop your own life. There is a life outside of your relationship. Get into something that you really like, or throw yourself into work. This can also do wonders for your relationship when he comes back. You two will have your own separate lives and then get together when it's convenient for you both, maybe once or twice a week. Develop some sort of a schedule. When you do see each other it will be hot! People in relationships tend to see each other so much that they become dependent. This is not good and leads to one or both of you taking the other for granted.
2006-06-13 14:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by smewth-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your self busy. My husband is gone have the year, but I keep my self busy with my family and freinds. I have two kids that do a good job of it. But I add to it my going to my dads for dinner, going to the movies, cleaning house, talking on the phone. I also have my daily phone time that is set aside just for talking to my husband. You may have a hobbie that you can also keep your self busy with, if not find one. A good one is scrapbooking, as it is the in thing now and very time consuming. before you know it your boyfreind will be home and it will seem like those two weeks went by in no time.
2006-06-13 14:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by marilynn101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep yourself as busy as possible. Shopping, organizing, yard work, cleaning. Go out with friends. Organize your house, all your closets, drawers. Have a garage sale. Go garage sale or thrift store shopping. My husband is only home 12 weeks a year due to his job. So me and the kids just keep as busy as possible. If doesn't make it easier to have him gone, it just makes the time go by faster. I have a hard time sleeping. Oh yeah, i also can get lost in this answers page for hours. That makes time go by. Just don't make yourself sick over him. He will be back. And don't forget absence makes the heart grow fonder. My husband and I never fight when he comes home, we appreciate eachother more now.
2006-06-13 14:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i can't see my boyfriend for a month and you actually get to talk to your boyfriend i am stuck in a deep depression but all you need to do is look at old pictures and remember all of the good memories of him and the time will fly or do something with your girlfriends.
2006-06-13 14:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do something to get him off of your mind! try going out with your friends or family or starting a new hobby. maybe theres a book youve been dying to read or maybe you can go on a mini trip of your own just to get away for a few days. i know its hard and you must miss him like crazy but try to enjoy this time you have alone to relax and catch up with other people in your life. enjoy!
2006-06-13 14:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Hez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easier for me not to talk to him at all because those ten minutes make you think how much you miss him so the next time you talk to him tell him that you would rather wait til he gets home so that you won't hurt so much when you all have to get off the phone
2006-06-13 14:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhh girl you will live... do things that you find fun dont build your whole life around a man...... wht you can do is practice your survival skills in case he decide one day to leave you wont be so heartbroken....get a hobby something that is all about you.... learn to relay on your self. i know how it feels but believe me you can handle this think you are a strong woman show that man,that he better be scared to leave you alone,dont show him you are a cry baby that cant live without him believe me men take that for granted and then do you wrong.men are weird creatures.just enjoy your time off and find a hobby that is my advice good luck.
2006-06-13 14:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends or loved ones for a while.Or you can really spend the time alone so that you can get some wonderful ideas for the future.
2006-06-13 14:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋