2006-06-13 07:30:52 · 38 answers · asked by michelle b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
There are control issues here. Report him to police and get a restraining order.
2006-06-13 07:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how everyone can give just a simple answer. We know nothing about you, or your ex. It could really be a number of things. OMG MAYBE HES CRAZY AND GUNNA KILL YOU! QUICK, CALL THE COPS!
We have no idea what his attitude, personality, etc, are like. If you want advice, just ask yourself what kind of person he is. You dated him right? You should know just a bit about what he's like. If he's seriously stalking you... like, popping up in your window in the middle of the night... get a restraining order. If he goes to the same gym you go to or something or visits you like a normal person, he may just be not over you. All I gotta say is use your brain... it's common sense. Hope you're old enough to take care of yourself.
Alls I know is the answer isn't as simple as "He's crazy." We don't know your situation, or you or him, or anything. =p
2006-06-13 07:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ben D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a control freak and if he thinks he can control you then he will... he needs to control someone or something, but yet since he can control you he doesnt respect you because inturn he thinks you are weak... In fact the truth he very low self esteem and it makes him feel this way... He will do anything make himself feel superior to someone else. He has found this in you. When you arent around he is depressed and needs to get his so called high from you. Stand up to him... he is like the school yard bully... when you arent afraid his power goes away
2006-06-13 07:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex like that. He is abusive and controlling and you need to get a restraining order before it escalates. I didn't listen when people told me the same thing until he finally tried to run me over. Then I woke up and called the cops and got a restraining order. Please do that before you get hurt.
2006-06-13 07:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either still likes you. or he's not over you which in the long run is the exact same thing. Just confront him and ask him and tell him to either stop calling you names or stop stalking you which ever one irritates you the most.
2006-06-13 07:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by whitsterbee08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very careful of what is going on, i know a situation just like this that went BAD! file a report get the police involved and place a restraining order against him, it's only a matter of time before he starts to become physical
2006-06-13 07:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes hurt by the fact that your were able to hurt him but his pride wont let him admit it so he wants you to feel just as bad which is horrible and you should be very careful if hes stalking you.
2006-06-13 07:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Puff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Is he green?? This guy has some extreme jealousy problems. report the stalking to authorities. If he catches you with someone else, there could be trouble.
2006-06-13 07:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by TN Seeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he still wants you but can't handle the rejection of you dumping him. He is trying to lower your self-esteem but you need to just stop taking his calls. Don't listen to that bull that he is telling you. GET A RESTRAINING ORDER PRONTO!!!
2006-06-13 07:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a control issue. He's trying to gain control by intimidation. In the process He's threatening your peace, privacy & wellbeing. Don't trust anyone who resorts to these tacticts. If you feel threatened, report Him.
2006-06-13 07:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by t a m i l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋