I was gobsmacked I did not what to do laugh or cry,what should I do?
2006-06-13 07:26:45 · 16 answers · asked by tourist 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o thats sad i feel for you no 1 should be dumped for being nice i hope you find some1 who will appreciate you for you good luck
2006-06-13 07:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem as old as the dating ritual itself. I will try and make this brief.
Women from about age 13ish through 25 have no idea what the hell is going on. They want a nice, rich, devoted, aggressive, sensitive, caring, tough, well dressed and groomed, in shape, career minded, family oriented man.
Unfortunately this man does not exist. This is why they end up with a 40 year old father/husband.
When you are too nice and loving and devoted at a young age they think your a freak. they are not used to this kind of treatment. So... they start to become confused, and although they like this treatment they are so confused they move defense mode and try to kill what they love.
* note for future reference- This "nice guy" thing works for women 25 years or older.
For the ladies - once a man matures to age 8 he is done, we only make it to a mental age of 8 no matter how long we live. The good news is we are consistent
2006-06-13 14:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Franklin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably dumped you for saying things like gobsmacked
2006-06-13 14:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Justin O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with your girlfiend becuase she was too nice? I really dont see how being too nice is a bad thing, but i guess if you really want an answer to what to do, you should move on. What is done is done you need to think about the future and remeber there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-06-13 14:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by brocklese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys have experienced similar situations. Many things could have motivated her to move on. Many girls who were subjected to abuse as children are often uncomfortable in healthy relationships with "nice" people.
Regardless of the reason you need not do anything. Go on being yourself and you will find a woman who appreciates it beyond words.
2006-06-13 14:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she couldn't find any other reason,
sounds like she wanted out.
i wouldn't sweat this kind of stuff.
there are to many other fish in the sea.
the right one will come along when you least expect it...
just go on, she will proablly realize she made a mistake,
and i would not take her back either..
do not let your guard down.
2006-06-13 14:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mman take it as a rule girls like no the love to act as a jerk with them i dont know i though that this is wrong and i should treat my girl with too nice but no no no haha no no you must be sometimes too mean with them you know just dump her and then she will run after you
2006-06-13 14:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by N!ckola$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not telling you the truth. I had a very similar experience, only to find out she actually had another boyfriend.
2006-06-13 14:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just felt that after nine months that u guys just had no future and she needed to move on. and her nices excuse was that. girls do that a lot
2006-06-13 14:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by confused maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow shes a *****
well maybe u sucked up too much or something but yepp
shes a *****
2006-06-13 14:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋