we broke up last month, she said we seemed like frineds, and she said she was scared of luv, everytime her friends talk 2 me or talk about me she gets mad
2006-06-13 07:23:39 · 15 answers · asked by GUILTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When this happens it's usually a clear sign that that person has found someone else they are interested in.
The good news is that person cared enough to try to let you down easy.
But make no mistake most of the time at this point it's over with, move on.....
2006-06-13 07:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember break-ups are not always easy and not always speared on by the fact that you want to break up. Depending on how old you are and how old she was it might be the realization that you want to see what else is out there.
Friendship is a bond that a lot of times is stronger than a relationship and nurturing that bond makes it hard when you see that person now with other people because you two were previously together.
Making the statement you would like to be friends is one of those cliche lines "easier said than done" especially when you are the one involved in trying to keep that line open. The fact that she gets man is no indication that she doesn't want to be friends you broke up only last month, it might just take some time to heal.
2006-06-13 07:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sierrawolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but she might not want to be friends. I could tell you
what but something might have happened to make her mad. Or
she just a spitful person. The phrase "Lets be friends" is use by many people who don't really mean it. It is just a way of getting it over with without to much confrontation
2006-06-13 07:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean7980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a loser. I went through the same thing and you know, I thot me and my ex were friends but she would just keep hurting me in some way. so your ex probably feels the same, it's just painful to be present around you right now. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-06-13 07:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs time to adjust to the break up. It's easy to say you want to be friends, but harder to do, especially if you are feeling rejected and depressed, and she is feeling guilty or confused. Remember, if a person is afraid of love, that means they are afraid of opening up completely, and there isn't much you can do about that.
2006-06-13 07:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im kinda going through the same thing. My bf broke up witheme but hes the one acting wierd. EVERYone says that he still loves me. i honestly dont know what to tell you.she might have realized that she really did deep insdie love oyu and now she missing oyu...or not.
2006-06-13 07:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by skaterchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people cant be friends after a breakup... some can. you have to find out what kind of person she is. and keep in mind shes an ex for a reason
2006-06-13 07:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The truth is, its not the same...lovers now friends. Its hard to not forget all the things that had gone b/w yourself and the one you once been with. idk, maybe she still have feelings for you that are still there...but I'm just guessing. If you really want to know the truth then you should ask her yourself.
2006-06-13 07:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels weird around you because it is awkward when you go from dating to just friends.
2006-06-13 07:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by KcEdmunds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would like for you to know that there is something that you
do and that is what is at issue. It is what you do in it is for you to know that does in relationships. 'Withdrawl of information' has its place but oppeness shows vulneralibility and trust.
How can you show me she hates?
2006-06-13 07:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋