2006-06-13 07:18:44 · 31 answers · asked by losiracin2005 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I use alot of lube, but she has only let me "finish" it once in her, most the time she yells to pull it out !!
2006-06-13 07:24:03 · update #1
Unless you are willing to sacrifice to get a dick reduction, the answer is a resounding NO. Why should she be in miserable pain and possible danger for your fantasy, especially since she seems to have objections? Seems like a deeper issue going on here.
2006-06-13 07:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by mahleezah 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try relaxing the area by engaging in some anal foreplay. A really good lube is also necessary. Take it slow and then get into it.
2006-06-13 14:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by texasboy0069 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about the most uncomfortable part of any sexual activity however i was told that before doing it the woman should remove her bowels and also make sure she is completely relaxed and aroused try it it could help don't forget the obvious lube
2006-06-13 16:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by classiclady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best solutuion is lube, lube, lube and more lube but really she has to relax and allow her to "back up" on it, almost like she is riding!!! Trust me when she gets it right the orgasim from anal is so off the chain it will make her slap your mama!! LOL
But seriously, she needs to control until she is comfortable.
2006-06-13 14:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by wetp1212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a BJ instead. I've been trying to relax enough to have that for years and after 18 years it still hasn't and probably won't be happening. Don't push her, it's not always safe for a women, mostly if they aren't relaxed. Whats the big deal anyway, why must guys want to try this, just forget about it.
2006-06-13 14:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first and foremost where a condom regardless (maybe even lubricated ones) and then add luberication to help. maybe even touch her there to prep her and make sures she's relaxed and not clenching or it WILL hurt. if that doesn't work, then I'd stop pushing for it, b/c if it doens't work, the pain isnt magically going to go away, so try something else! experiment, that's what's great about a healthy sex drive, and knowing when to be understanding of others!! Hope this helps
2006-06-20 11:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make her more comfortable by not making her do it. The anus was made for things to come out, not go in. Have you ever tried sticking something up there? How did it feel? If you love her and respect her you will not try to make her do something she truly hates.
2006-06-13 16:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by yummymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definitly use a lube like KY. but also be very gentle. try foreplay using your fingers & toungue. i know that sounds gross, but i'm sure you'll both shower first. anyway, if you're gentle enough doing this then it should turn her on and get her excited. be sure not to focus only on the anus, but ALL parts of her body as there are many, many errogonious points on a womans body. discover them all!!!and enjoy yourselves!!! but above all....BE SAFE !!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 14:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by warpaint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of lubrication, go realllllly slow and gentle, and make sure she completely relaxes her muscles. After it is in there and it and out a few times it won't hurt anymore.
2006-06-13 14:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you want anal man. unless she has shitted everything out of her. do you really want **** all over your cock. how about in you urithra. but if you insist. i suppose alot of lube would do the trick. i suggest WD-40
2006-06-13 14:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋