Is it ok to date friends of an ex?
2 years ago I met D- I dated him for a few months and after hanging out with him and his friends one night I found out that D was cheating on me with his ex-wife.
After dumping D, me and his friend J started talking and realiized we had a lot in common and dated for a few months, but we broke up 6 months ago because he was not ready for a commitment.
Fast forward to a few days ago, I ran into one of D & J's friend M at a local bar. We have been talking ever since-
We have great chemistry and I really enjoy his company-
Is it ok to date him?
I don't want to be known as the girl who is passed around a circle of friends-
Your Thoughts?
(PS, M has no problem with it, I am still friends with J..... D is another story)
2006-06-13 07:14:25 · 8 answers · asked by Rae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me, it is NOT worth the drama. There are too many other fine fish in the sea for you to be swimming in the same murky pond.
2006-06-13 07:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by stephete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do anything you want, as long as you hold yourself proudly and be friendly. I dont belive in the bullshit of "what other people think", it really just deppends on you, if you like him enough it dont matter who are his friends. There are things who meant to be- who are we/they that will stop you from being with somebody whom you may marry inthe future? maybehe is your twin soul? maybe he is The One, and no society agreement should prebvent you from being with somebody who might be THE one.
Then forget about all that society its bullshit anyways and its each persons view.
It willbe good to give your relationship a fair decent try. Take it really really slow, dont sleep withhim unless the realtions are commited, but do fun stuff like friends do atthe begining and there is no way anybody would look at that in a starnge way. Just be commited to check if he is for you or not.
Hili
2006-06-13 07:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Hili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be known as the girl who was passed around by friends let them go girl its not worth losing your rep over a bunch of guys.
2006-06-13 07:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you guys really click then yay for you. The others should be adult enough to accept it.
2006-06-13 07:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Penny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, could be the love of your lifetime. You only go around once.
2006-06-13 07:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-06-13 07:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry it is too long.
2006-06-13 07:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it
2006-06-13 07:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋