I used to hang out with this guy about a year ago. We were pretty close but ended up being just friends with benefits. We stopped talking and hanging out. He had a serious relationship during the time that we stopped talking so I think he is alot different now. He started calling me again....How do I get the upper hand this time?
2006-06-13 07:05:36 · 9 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's all you are ever gonna be with that guy, a yo yo!. You've already established that with him. He can use you as his own personal booty call. Till he notices someone else. You are heading for a life of heartache. Don't ever start out with a guy like that again! I would say this one is ruined, don't let him use you!!!!! Other guys will notice that and think they can use you as well, you'll even start believing it yourself!!! Move on.....Get something better.
2006-06-13 07:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start hanging out with again, ask him where he's going with this, tell him what you want. You already know each other, so he shouldn't be scared off. If he is intimidated, after all this time,
then it could never be serious anyway, and there's no loss.
unless, of course, you want to keep being friends with benefits...
2006-06-13 07:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by asaaiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a born with skill not a learned behavior honey. You can only control yourself in any situation and you and he may be on different pages.
2006-06-13 07:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to get upper hand, if u really like him then only u go other wise what i suggest not to mix up with such type man
2006-06-13 07:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by SWAPAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him over have sex with him and then tell him you have somethings you have to do. When he leaves forget about him never call or take his calls again.
2006-06-13 07:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up for your self, and dont let him take advantage of you. He may not even know what hes doing. Tell him how you feel and what you would like to happen.
2006-06-13 07:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by starlove202000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have t start to make a new life .
2006-06-13 07:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by kenisha_ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call ur friend now
2006-06-13 07:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by jitu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make changes in your own life.
2006-06-13 07:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋