2006-06-13 07:03:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better don´t ...
You may loose her and make the beautiful female friend look at you as nasty as you are...
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2006-06-13 07:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the problem. Do you want to have a threesome to fulfill a fantasy or do you want to have sex with her "beautiful female friend" if it is the latter forget it. Only trouble can come out of that. It can only lead to hurt feelings and insecurities from your girlfriend.
When having a threesome it is always a very wise idea to chose someone that neither of you know. That way no hurt feelings can happen. Nor can any wondering what if...or your girlfriend will not wonder if you like her friend better etc.
2006-06-13 07:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! If she is into that she will definitely let you know especially if you've expressed an interest in threesomes. And you definitely don't request that it be "her beautiful female friend" that you ask to join. 1) her friend my not be willing to participate and will be offended the you or her "so called" friend even had the audacity to ask. 2) a lot of women don't want their friends sleeping with their man. (this could lead to you sleeping with the friend without your girlfriend's knowledge after the threesome is completed.) 3) if she is into threesomes she might not want her friends to know all of her business, this might be something that she would want to keep between you, her and the third party. If you don't know if your girlfriend is interested in a threesome all you can do is ask. And if she says yes, don't hold your breath on her inviting her beautiful female friend join in.
2006-06-13 07:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a fun night out (or IN), just the three of you. In is probably better because you won't have to worry about the friend being picked up by someone else. Make sure everyone is comfortable and having a good time. Alcohol usually helps. Set a good atmosphere. DON'T BE CREEPY ABOUT IT! Segue into you and the friend giving your girlfriend a massage (maybe have a sesual massage book you just purchased out on the coffee table and mention you'd like to try a couple things). At this point soft lighting (candles) and soft music are a must. It's also good to have the place smelling nice. I'd recommend doing the massage on the floor, with your girlfriend laying face down on a blanket. It's also good to have a bowl of fruit to feed her (grapes, kiwi, strawberries...something that smells good). You want to appeal to ALL of the senses. Start out with her only taking her shirt off. Shouldn't be a big deal if she's laying face down. Then, as the massage continues, you'll be able to get her out of her clothes slowly. After a nice long massage, you both massage the friend in the same manner, then they both massage you. If you make it this far without anyone freaking out...it's a done deal.
2006-06-13 07:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Troy Powers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a threesome once. It was weird.
I didn't ask, we were all drinking and I started to fool around with my girlfriend and she invited her friend in for a piece of the action. Worked out ok, but we were only 14 years old so life wasn't that complicated.
I would just ask if she was interested in a threesome and if she was into it I would suggest the hot friend. I think it would be unwise to start the conversation - I want to have a threesome with your hot friend.
2006-06-13 07:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Franklin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss threesomes with her. find out if she is interested in doing that. then discuss whether or not she would like to invite the friend over for drinks, etc. and go from there. but always be honest with your girlfriend. make sure she knows that your attraction/desire to have this threesome is to enhance your relationship not that you prefer the friend over her.
2006-06-13 08:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by GreenIdGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Done that. It's highly over rated. But to answer your question, it starts by waiting until she asks you about the things you like, your fantasies, what she might do special for you. You can't bring up a subject like that. You have to let her think it's her idea. And the friend has to be into it as well.
2006-06-13 07:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her but first, try to discover whether she is open to the idea of having a threesome or she doesn't like the mere sound of it. i went out with this guy from webdatedotcom, i knew he likes me but right from the start i was already aware of the idea that he is thrilled with that kind of activity so, i was the one who initiated the whole orgasmic event.
2006-06-13 07:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by steller23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her right in the eye and say " I would love to spend some quality time with you and get to know your friend better. Than introduce some lube, candles (always a nice touch) and then bring out Mr Chubby....the direct approach is always the best one.
Good Luck!
2006-06-13 07:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by neelyohara2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she feels about that kind of thing and by her reaction you'll have your answer.
If she dosent seem wieirded out about it bring it up but dont mention the female friend you want becasue that will just cause jeliously.
Let her pick the girl.
2006-06-13 07:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋