I am 19 years old and still haven't had a single girlfriend. I'm not some weirdo loser, either. I actually play guitar and sing in several bands. I've actually often been asked in surprise why I haven't had a girlfriend, yet. So any input/advice would be great, thanks guys.
2006-06-13 07:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by comboy3004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find some hot chick at one of your shows and look right at her and croon away....then follow up and talk to her afterwards....I know this sucks, but girls don't talk to guys even if they really like them....they have the power, so we have to work for them....it is just the way it is brother.
2006-06-13 07:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's start with the basics. make sure you shower daily, use good smell stuff (cologne, deodorant, gum), shave your face, wear clean clothes and underwear. you need good manners, some money (to go out on dates), a car, and a clean place to live (you never know who might wanna come home with you). you also need confidence, but not too cocky (most girls don't like that).
then, once you have all those things, talk to your buddies. they must have girlfriends. girls know other girls. go out with your coupled-up buddies and ask their girl to bring someone you might be interested in. have something interesting to talk about and see if the sparks fly! having a couple drinks to loosen up is ok, just don't get hammered before you meet someone new.
2006-06-13 14:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sorta sound like me but im a grl, and i dont play guitar but i love music.
anywho to build confidence just go up to a random hot girl and start a convo, or just say shes pretty.
or give some lovn to 1 of ur groupies.
good luck:]
2006-06-13 14:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by phccchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and female... with the same problem. I've never been to a mixed school before and I'm shy around new people. Contact me on my page if you want to talk :)
2006-06-13 15:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by snowpatrol161 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you ever tried asking a girl out and spending time with one.
2006-06-13 14:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find someone that you think you might be interested in and go ask her out.
2006-06-13 14:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by sisterof_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probally just a real busy guy, dont rush it, it will come when its right
2006-06-13 14:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask one out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 14:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋