Should a virgin lie to her boyfriend about being a virgin,what if he finds out she isnt?

Answer 1

Never lie! It's not a good way to start a relationship. The man will respect her more if he knows shes untouched! Not only that, she should be proud to be a virgin!!!

Answer 2

No, she shouldn't lie, and if the question has not been asked, she should keep that information private. First, she should ask herself how she feels. Then, see if her mate's actions go with their words. Before saying anything, she should see that his actions agree with what she hopes to gain from the relationship. You see, virginity is too precious to worry about a persons reaction to it; but if a lie has been told, she should hold off on doing anything sexually. If she is a virgin, I would advise her to wait because there is no way for her to know what she could be getting into. If she is not, she should not lie to him, or herself; the truth will become apparent through her actions. Furthermore, a guy won't find out the truth unless she opens her mouth or somewhere else.

Answer 3

Two main points:

Honesty is always the best policy. I had a bottle of mezcal that I bought for my father in Mexico as a gift seized by CBP because I was underage. I could have lied and gotten past customs, but there are certain things that are more important.

Second, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact, it's a good thing. If anything, you're boyfriend should be ashamed of having wasted his virginity on someone else. You should be proud of your virginity. That sounds like a really nerdy, unpopular thing to say, but it's true. Post-teen virgins are a dying breed.

Answer 4

No, don't lie. It is not a good strategy once you are in a relationship with someone and you have come to the point of getting intimate.

If you are a virgin, and you say you aren't... he will turn you all around in bed and finally get a shock when he touches you there... "ups there is no free way open over here, Jesus, you are a virgin, Honey"!!!

Now, if you are not a virgin and you lie... poor fellow will prepare mentally and physically for the big event...... and when he gets there he will be very disappointed cause...... "dammit, there was someone else here before me, oh you liar, you ********"!

Answer 5

How would he find out? If you are a virgin, don't lie about it. Becuse it's nothinbg to be ashamed about it. In fact, it would probably be more awkward if he found out you were lying about being experienced. When you tell him, don't make a big deal about it. Just say, "I haven't been this far with a guy before" or " I'm probably not as experienced as you are." so it doesn't seem so important.

Answer 6

First of all - a virgin has no reason to lie about being one, neither should a person is not a virgin lie about being one. It's not necessary to lie - period. Your word is all you have in this world as far as your character and dignity. Why lie?

Answer 7

Why lie? Why EVER lie? I just dont get it. Everyone is or has been a virgin. Whats the big dam problem?

Answer 8

Dont lie.

There is a thin membrane that is penetrated during the first time you have sex. If it's not broken, he'll know instantly.

My suggestion is to be honest. If he cares for you, it shouldn't matter if you're a virgin.

Answer 9

I hope telling truth will not bring you into any trouble. But tell him only if he asks for it. Because I have seen several relationships where in the beginning everything is accepted but later on when the relationships grows and both boy and the girl start taking each other for granted then the actual problem begins. They keep on blaming each other for the things you did in your past. So my feeling is not to tell anything unless he asks you.

Answer 10

If you are in a relationship where sex is involved, or will be involved, that relationship must have some type of commitment and being honest in your communication with that person will benefit both of you in the long run. On the other hand, if it is just 'dating' not sharing all your secrets is definitely ok.