my bff likes my bf!! she will constantly tell me how hot she thinks she is!! I also catch him staring at her!I love him but I am really fed up with it!! what should I do!!
2006-06-13 06:48:51 · 29 answers · asked by Devin S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is truly your best friend, tell her to stop. She should respect that if she is truly your friend. What does your boyfriend think about all of this? If he doesn't see anything wrong with it and you can't compromise in any way, maybe its time to move on.
2006-06-13 06:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by lmafishfish 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first if she likes your boyfriend, then she IS NOT your bff!! 2nd if he likes her too then he isnt worth your time or energy. If they like each other, you are gonna be the one to wind up hurt in the end. My advise, if confront them, then dump the loser, and find a new friend. Your bff will not be someone who will do that to you. My best friend and i had an argument once, and she knew i cared about my boyfriend, she tried to go after him. In my case, he wasnt interested in her at all, and told her so. But i found out she wasnt my real friend after all. I was so much happier without her and her drama in my life.
There are plenty of guys out there, you will know when you found the one, You wont even have to question if he loves you and wants to be w/ you- you will know it. Good luck. Sorry you have this problem. God Bless.
2006-06-13 13:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all if she likes your bf then she is most definatley not your bff. And on the flip side of that, if he's checking out your bff then he doesn't sound like very good bf material either. I say you should dump them both, you don't want a bf or a bff that you can't trust.
2006-06-13 14:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by andijo420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I am going to be very blunt. She is not your best friend if she likes your boyfriend. It is ok to find him attractive, but completely different when there is an attraction. You shuold definately watch out for her, becuase my experience has shown me that people only do things for themselves, and if you are more important to her than your BF she will do whatever it takles not to ruin that. However, if she feels that she likes him more than she likes your friendship, get ready for disappointment. Don't confront her, she will just lie anyway. Just keep your eye out. As for him and his wandering eye, its more her fault than his. Men are men, and will always be men...GET IT? They think with a completely different head. If he is looking at her in a certain way, then it is only because she has given him some sort of sign that it is ok to give her these flirtatious looks. Because if men know one thing, its that women talk, and any man who is not getting the proper signs from a woman wont dare make the first move, out of fear of his gf finging out. So, she must have given him some sort of sign. I hope it all works out well dear!
2006-06-13 13:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by gabramovich51583 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD the same problem!! ask and tell ur boyfriend about her!!
Have your Bf talk to ur BFF try not to end the friendship unless you need or want too! :)
JB!! OH man she tried to take my boyfriend and I was pissed off at her!! I wanted to kick her a s s!!
But thnkfully my boy said god and hell no to her!!
Good luck gurl!!
Have gurl power be feirce with her!
2006-06-13 13:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just not right - how long have you been friends for? id say a friendship isnt worth losing over a girlfriend, but then again, is he a true friend if he's doing stuff like that> its a hard decision but you need to make it. you need to tell him how you feel or let it go. good luck
2006-06-13 13:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put her in her place. Your best friend should know that he is your boyfriend. Tell her boundaries in what she can do. I did this once and it worked. I told my best friend how uncomfortable I was with her doing that around me. And besides he is my bf and not hers. Tell her to not speak about anymore around you and to remember that he is your boyfriend not hers.
2006-06-13 13:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by MLB™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my good advice 4 u is.
you close ur eye and forget about ur bf, if he come back to u, give him the last chance and play a game with him. if he behave take him back if he don't tell him bye and don't look back at him.
for ur friend, bullshit her, cos shes an unfaithful friend ever
2006-06-13 14:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by jummybaibey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, she's not a friend.
She's a back stabbing *****.
Kick his and her *** to the curb.
for furture references heres a few signs that will let you know that that ***** aint your friend.....
please avoid!!!
SIGNS THAT, THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND
If she watches while you get you *** beat instead of helping you fight.... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she thinks it's aight to go with your ex-boyfriend because you didn't really like him that much.... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she hangs around people that you don't like or that do not like you..... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she tries to talk to the guy you crushin on... You already know THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she hooks up with a guy that you use to hook up with, no matter how drunk she is...... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If your birthday comes around and she doesn't even send you a text..... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If your man is caught cheating and she won't roll with you to **** up his car..... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she's a hoe! Hoes can't be trusted and THAT HOEISH ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she knows your man is cheating and doesn't tell you..... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
If she won't let you borrow $5 without collateral...... THAT ***** IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!
2006-06-13 13:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by shaniquedent45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bff that your bf likes them
2006-06-13 13:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by megancassel2013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋