when I was about 12 my mom started calling me fat and all this kind of crap I only weighed 100 lbs! then I started developing MAJOR body issue and became annorexic...after 2 yrs and treatment I am ok but I no longer have my mom in my life!! was I wrong because my mom makes me feel bad and so does her bf?!
2006-06-13 06:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by Devin S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am absolutly by no means fat at least I don't think ((I weigh 115)) and I am 15
2006-06-13 06:44:40 · update #1
You should only have people in your life that make you feel good, all others bring you down. Have you tried to tell your mom how you feel? Her boyfriend would not even be an issue. Just be happy and surround yourself with positive influences. Good Luck!
2006-06-13 06:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by lele 2 · 11⤊ 2⤋
you are not wrong to not want people in your life who put you down. that is a form of mental abuse that noone should be subjected to. You can have a relationship with your mom in the future (if you want) if you remember that the bad things that she says to you is most likely because she is unhappy with herself. There are many negative things out there, it is just unfortunate that it has to come from family.
2006-06-13 13:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by JAQ2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say she called u fat and u weighed 100 lbs?I weigh 99 and my mama tells me i need to gain weight(which i can't seem to do). Your mama has a serious problem.
2006-06-13 13:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by georgiagurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents do stupid things for reasons they think are good. With so many of us overweight, she may have thought she was "helping".
However some parents are just plain mean or have some other agenda. You mention your mothers boyfriend. Is there concern of competition?
If its one quirk and you have learned to deal with it, you may want to try and have some type of relationship with her.
If she is being mean and or continues to harp on it, then it's time to move on without her.
2006-06-13 13:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by paintingj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. There is no reason other people, especially a relative, should make you feel fat. You probably look great.
2006-06-13 13:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..Kinda tragic..But i bet u it wasnt u r problem...So u see world is a place of wonders...When u changed the thing to good..u lost a integral part of u r life!!Sry anyways!!
2006-06-13 13:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by M.Y.Tonse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she always tells you that you are fat and bad cause she wants you to be thin and nice,your age is too longer for being overweight,you mustn't accept your fat body,you should try and try to be nice,take my advice!
you will be more longer and longer if you be thin.
i hope that i help you,thank you!
if you want help send to me at:hkaseer@gmail.com
bye
2006-06-13 13:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by haya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong for what? Not having your mom in your life now? no i don't think so...
2006-06-13 13:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not wrong she was for telling you your fat. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
2006-06-13 13:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Red Sawx ® 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mum should respect you and love you for who you are, no matter what weight you are. stay strong and eventually things will sort out. good luck chick
2006-06-13 13:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋