Since a few weeks I know a nice girl. Today we talked for the first time on the phone - I called her (she gave me her phone number a few days ago). The discussion was more than ok - she already knows that I want to ask her out because that's why I've asked for her phone number. I dont want to rush into this that's why I haven't told her anything today about our date but I do want to meet her live and talk with her. But I want to do it in a gentle and professional way as she has a busy work schedule. What shall I do next? Thank you.
2006-06-13 06:13:38 · 16 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, slow down, just a bit. You say You just talked with Her today for the first time. Wait a day, and call again, get to know each other a little. Find out what She likes to do, and then in one of the next three to four conversations, just say, well do You think it would be a good time to get together, something small, like coffee, or a coke. Where it is quite and You can get to know each other better. Then there will not be so much pressure, and it won't appear like You are trying to rush things. Then when You do go out, You will feel more comfortable with each other. Go about it the right way so that You end up where You want Your relationship to be, instead of going too fast, and wind up messing it up, and staying at home thinking about how You wished You had gone about it. And by the way, they just had a show on last night about dating, they said don't give out too much information, like no thanks I don't use cream, I am lactose intolerant, and NEVER talk about ex-girlfriends. Hope this helps.
Good Luck, hope it works out the way You wanted it to,
and God Bless.
2006-06-13 06:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Asking her out to lunch would be a great way to start. There's less stress for everyone, there's also and "ending" time and so there's less of the "what do we do for the rest of the evening" awkward silence. I've found it's much more relaxing than dinner.
Since she is busy, just grabbing a drink (assuming you're old enough :) )after work would be a good idea too. Doing it in the middle of the week as sort of a nice break. Then that leaves the option of asking her out for that weekend.
Good luck, and it's good to know there are still guys out there that aren't always trying to rush things.
2006-06-13 06:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she works and can have at least an hour for lunch try asking her if you could bring a box lunch for her and have lunch near her work so you don't have to spend your time going to and back. A small park would be nice but even in a parking lot will do. Not in a car though. From there you should be able to figure out what to do.
2006-06-13 06:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD AGREE THAT A LUNCH DATE IS PERFECT...SOMEPLACE CLASSY BUT CASUAL.....YOU CAN LEARN A LOT ABOUT HER FROM SETTING DOWN TO A NICE LUNCH AND ALSO TALKING BEFORE LUNCH ARRIVES...COMMENTING ON THE SERVICE AND THE TASTEFUL FOOD....A GOOD CONVERSATION STARTER.....THEN THINGS WILL PRETTY MUCH UNRAVEL ITSELF....ALSO NEVER TRY TO PUSH THINGS AND MAKE HER WORK AROUND YOUR SCHEDULE...SEEING AS HOW SHE IS SO BUSY HERSELF...ALWAYS TELL HER THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO MEET WHENEVER SHE IS FREE TO DO SO....AND ALSO BRING HER FLOWERS WHEN YOU HAVE LUNCH....AND KISS HER GOODNIGHT AT THE DOOR BUT ONLY ON THE CHEEK, AND DON'T ASK TO COME IN......IF IT'S THAT TYPE OF DATE WHERE YOU WOULD BE TAKING HER HOME.....ALWAYS REMEMBER TO TELL HER WHAT A GREAT TIME YOU HAVE WITH HER AND HOPE TO GET TO SHARE MANY MORE LUNCH DATES IN THE FUTURE...HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU BOTH
2006-06-13 06:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA&ERIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to lunch. This allows enough time to talk and get to know each other better. If things are not working out, well then you only have to deal with each other for an hour. Works both ways.
If things do work out - then you should invite her to dinner and a movie.
2006-06-13 06:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-09 00:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on a lunch date and than ask her if she would like to go to dinner and a movie tommorrow night.
2006-06-13 06:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by kellymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lunch is usually the easiest way to get to know someone. It's less imposing as say, dinner.
2006-06-13 06:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by anna_lvlossity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take her to lunch. Just tell her that you want to meet her and talk to her in person...like you told us.
2006-06-13 06:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about her favorite things a mini conversation
2006-06-13 06:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by Hex Tropetor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋