Ive been with her for six months. Everything has been great but we recently got into an arguement, she told me that she needed time and space. I called her and text her and tried to talk to her friends to find out whats going on but she got upset and told me to leave her alone and she told her best friend that she was done with me and I was annoying her. I sent her an email telling her I wont bother her anymore and that I will always love her and care for her. 3 day later she texts me about her missing me and she tells her friends that she still loves me and im always on her mind. I gave her a ring awhile back and on myspace she just posted a picture with it and saying that "the ring ill never take off". She still hasnt changed her status or anything. I text her yesterday and told her if we can meet up and have coffie but she told me she will get back to me and I called her and asked her do we still have a chance and she says she doesnt know. Its been 2 weeks of drama and im confused
2006-06-13 05:39:54 · 6 answers · asked by lost realist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, it's only been 6 months. Either you got too close or she did and you both of you are retarded for letting that happen. Leave her alone and move on. Quit calling, delete her Myspace info from yours (MySpace is stupid anyways and will be shut down this December), and let her be. She'll forget about you faster than you can her, but you'll be back to normal in a week or 2.
2006-06-13 05:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is give her the space she wants. If it's meant to be she will come back. But just leave her alone for a while. Notice that when you did, she started to miss you. Let her miss you and remember why she was with you in the first place. But don't let it go on like this forever. Set a time limit in your mind (2 weeks, a month?) and if she hasnt made up her mind then you need to make it up for her and move on. You can't put your life on hold forever just because she can't figure out what she wants.
2006-06-13 05:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by lookinMNfeelinCA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, u may not like my answer but im gonna b real wit u.....step off for a minute....give her exactly what she is asking for....in the meantime...u get out and enjoy ure summer....it gonna be hard because ure into this girl...but if ure ultimate goal is to have her as ure woman....u need to play this right......when giving her her space, when she calls u, dont accept the call..allow it to go into vm...in other words, do not make yourself available.....allow this to go on for about a month or so......make her miss u.....hold back for a minyte because she's lookin at it as she gotcha and can have u anytime she pleases......u gotta put an end to dat, because if u dont she'll never respect u or the relationship....allow her to miss u and want u...make her think....a woman that is a real woman does not like sharing and will not share......so make her think that u are busy wit doing u......
its the summer time.....get out and enjoy living...dont consume yourself with her on your mind....ure gonna drive yourself insane......if its true love and she's feelin u and truly loves u......she'll be back....but u got to wait it out and stop making yourself available ....and by all means...stop telling her how u feel unless she initiates it first, and even if she does...exercise wisdom......
try this and i garuntee u before the end of summer she'll be burning up ure phone....
holler back
Sincere
2006-06-13 05:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by sincere030170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the beginning of the end
'breaks' in a relationship are never good
2006-06-13 05:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing a game and either she don't know it or she can't help it
2006-06-13 05:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's rather insecure about herself rite now...give her time....
2006-06-13 05:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋