i have no friends, i have no family, and i have no life. Why is it that the majority of the people on this earth arent alone, and i am.
2006-06-13 04:49:54 · 22 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
cuz your by yourself
2006-06-13 04:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋
Sometimes people can still feel VERY alone and yet be surrounded by others.....take heart in the fact that you are not the only person out there to feel this way....I mean it. I think that you should get involved with a hobby...something that you have always wanted to do but haven't for whatever reason....or volunteer somewhere for a cause that you have always been partial to.....that's what I have done in the past...and it REALLY does help, I feel like I am needed and that I'm doing something worthwhile. You need to get out there..it's not healthy to not have any interaction on a casual level...but only you can do this and no-one else..you have to make the first move, try not to feel sorry for yourself and just DO IT!!! This is the only way that you are going to make a friend or two....surround yourself with people that lift you UP and not down.....the kind of people that you have things in common with....I think if you can do this...everything will naturally fall into place. If you are still depressed and can't see a light at the end of the tunnel....see a counselor, someone that you can talk things out with and maybe get some advice from. I thought I would never see the day when I would go to a therapist....but I did and guess what? it WORKED!! I still have my bad days but I have more Good days now!!
Good Luck to you....and don't give up!!!
2006-06-13 12:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even if you have all those things you can still feel alone. But you will never really be alone. I'm sure that someone cares for you out there and any one can be a friend. I don't have much of a life either. If you need to talk say hi.
2006-06-13 11:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer, enrol in a course, volunteer at a charity, advertise for other people who would like to start an activity group....... stop wallowing and start living! Life is way too short to be alone and lonely.
2006-06-13 12:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we need to be alone..it's good for everyone.it give us the chance to think of everything we've been through during the day and all the past days. you don't have to be lonely,don't put yourself inside this false prison.u should make the first step which is start making new relationships.and try to comunicate with others.look at the brightest sides in your life and hold for it.
believe me friend..nothing in this life deserve making u sad.live ure life now and don't ever think of the past.start making new life it's your chance.
2006-06-13 12:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by dandon2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably do have friends you just don't realize it. i can be you friend also. i usually feel that way and i always get reminded by people around me that i am cared about and that i'm never alone in this world, so that is what i'm going to tell you. life is not always easy or fun but it can have its upsides. just keep hanging in there. if you really feel alone you can e-mail me at funandchurch@yahoo.com. you can e-mail me just to talk or whatever. i will be here alot. i really hope you find out that you really are special and people do care about you.
2006-06-13 12:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by funandchurch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought of being a little more open? Why don't you try to meet new people? Go out and try to have some fun. I'm sure you'll make some friends. Just be talkative, and polite.
2006-06-13 11:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. You can have friends, and maybe a family. You need to work on your self-esteem. Try joining some youth organizations, like the YMCA.
2006-06-13 11:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't alone! you have to have someone in your life. if you feel that alone, consider joining a group or a church for some social interaction. or get a pet! you can take it to the park and stuff... that will get you around more people and open up the door to making new friends. trust me, you aren't alone.
2006-06-13 11:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by ajamichelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you choose to be alone, and only you can change that.
Try to find a hobby and get out and meet people.
2006-06-13 12:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chreap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't feel so bad, I have no friends and not much of a family too. I always feel the same way as you but just try to keep going on. you'll be fine.
2006-06-13 11:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by NS42day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋