Ex Girlfriend phoned to ask me to meet her at the weekend.
I am single now, and she is with someone.
We had a great sex life.
What do I do if she still wants Nookie?
2006-06-13 04:33:05 · 21 answers · asked by emeraldisle2222 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Update; Well, we met, and we had a very good meeting.
She was expecting Nookie, but we managed to avoid it, and I think that that was best.
We will meet again soon.
2006-06-20 14:04:04 · update #1
I know that in past experience, its really tempting and persuading, if an ex calls you and asks you for a night of passion! ;) but... your relationship has ended, and it seems to me like she is trying to manipulate you in the process?
She is already with her partner, and so is not only abusing his trust and loosing respect for herself-but if you are the third spoke in her relationship (even if this is just "sex") then, surely this will make you no better than her?
I split up with my ex over 9 months ago, and i have since been in a long term relationship with my current partner for the past 8 months. I was with my ex for 3 and half years, and all he did was cheat on me with various other women! We too had a great sex life-but, id much rather a realtionship that is based on trust and respect anyday (plus great sex is a bonus ;) ) My ex contacted me near enough every day for 6 months asking me for sex, but not once did i say yes, cos i love my partner and respect him. She doesnt have respect fro anyone??
Perhaps, as your ex knows that you are single, that she is taking you for advantage! Its possible that she doesnt want you to be with anyone else-as she knows that you probabley wont be, if you are seeing her? She also thinks that she can get away with two timing both of you (even with your consent!) what kind of person does this?
I know its tempting but you have to ask her to stop calling you and asking for sex. Its low! And someone with such low morals, is obviousley someone to be wary off.... STI's spring to mind? You also have to ask yourself-are you the only one shes trying to cheat with?
In the end, what goes around comes around-my ex cheated on me with 5 other women, and ended up catching STI's!! So it serves him damn right lol!
And why did your relationship end? Obviousley for a good reason!
Good luck!!
x
2006-06-13 04:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/C4dEa
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-25 19:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are single. She is seeing someone. She wants to meet. Hopefully she respects the one she is with that she just wants to talk. Keep your composure and resist if possible. If she is a knockout, it will be very difficult. Good Luck!
2006-06-13 04:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 13:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Sex with the ex is always the best ha ha x
2006-06-13 04:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say no dude because she is just pretty much useing you for your body and she is useing the other guy as well and if you do go meet her this weekend trust me your making a mistake
2006-06-13 04:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea... Sound nice - but think if you were the guy she was cheating on... Imagine that while she was with you, she did that with her ex......
Nahh - people like that do it for kicks - bugger everyone else...
2006-06-20 12:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "only if it's okay with your guy".
If she says "yeah, he'll be cool with that" you them say "ok, give me his number and I'll check it out with him, okay?"
She says: "oh, we broke up". You say: "awww...give me his number, I want to tell him how sorry I am".
Etc...until she gets herself a moral back-bone and you don't have to be having one for her.
Then again: she may not ask and you may just be deluding yourself!
In short: don't give her the pleasure, even if it means giving up the pleasure yourself (especially if she broke up with you!).
2006-06-13 04:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nefeco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give till it hurts
2006-06-13 04:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea
2006-06-13 04:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by eve_polish_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋