ok my b/f doesn’t like my tattoos, he’s really stuck to the Mexican traditions how women should look like, act and due. i think he is stupid for this because he likes tattoos but only on men(his planning on getting out baby's name tattooed on himself) what do u guys think of this is he right tattoos should only be on men and not women (i know i might have gone a little over board i have 7 but there all small and i can hide them and he met with them) but still i would like to see what other people think......thanks to all the once that answer my question.......
2006-06-13 04:28:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it doesnt matter- woman or men, its their body and if they are wiling to live with it, so be it- its their decision
2006-06-13 04:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by *~MimiAngel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a tattoo and want two or three more. I understand what he is saying cause when I look at women I see a soft smooth prefect creature and tattoos can, but not always, take away that beauty of a woman. I dont think it would be right for him to force you to remove them or stop you from getting anymore either. This is just how I feel and would never stop my fiance if she wanted one.
2006-06-13 04:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by footballhead1041 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess having a tatoo is expressing your personality and it up to the person to decide whether or not a tatoo is appropriate. Some would say that tatoos are unprofessional but that depends on your field of work. Now as far as men vs women, there is no sex boundary. Women are free to get tatoos just as well as men are there is no book of rules that says we can't. Whether men find it attrative or not is up to them. Tell him to be a lil more liberal, if he met you that way then he should not have any problems with it.
2006-06-13 04:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think tattoos are fine for either, I have 2 and looking at getting a couple more. My husband has 2. Its all a matter of opinion. What does he expect you to do? Doesn't sound like you kept them a secret. He will have to get over it or you will have to move on.
2006-06-13 04:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by suziQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s your choice if you want tatoos, never let anyone make you (or not let you) do something. If you like your seven tatoos then that´s fine.. nothing to be embarassed about and if you want more, then get more. Live your life the way you will be happiest.
If your boyfriend has a good reason then try to respect him (maybe just get another small one, or get one that has to do with him too-it´ll make him feel good, i doubt he´ll mind, or if he´s got a good enough reason then don´t get one). If his only reason is because women shouldn´t but men can, then you don´t need to listen to him. Women have the same rights as men and can make their own choices
2006-06-13 04:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to the Bible the body is a holy temple and should be treated as such; but as you know we don't really think of that when we defile ourselves. I have a tattoo and plan on getting another it's art, an expression, it's enjoyable and if you feel like this it's your body (well God's) and you should do as either you or God feels, only you will have to be judged on your body. Do You!
2006-06-13 04:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
visit a doctor to find out whether you and your husband is fit for a surgery. Vasectomy operation for men is very easy and simple procedure. It has lesser hospital stay because of early recovery. If your husband is not fit for surgery then you can go for sterilization procedure like laparoscopic tubal ligation. It is also a short procedure but general anesthesia is required which has few contraindications and sometimes can cause complications related to anesthesia. Both the procedure has advantages and complications. But in a good hospital and with the good doctor operating chances of complications are very rare. Hope this is helpful to you. Good luck.
2016-03-15 03:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i think he is stupid for this because he likes tattoos but only on men" shows you don't respect his wishes especially if you got them while you were dating and he said to you he didn't like them on women and etc.. However, if you got them before you two met then he has totally contradicted his beliefs. So, he can get over it and shut his pie hole ... in my opinion
2006-06-13 04:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a double standard..I think it's perfectly fine that women have tatoos..I have 6..but just like yours, mine are small, and very discreet..they are only visible if i want them to be..so i don't think it's a problem. get your tatoo girl, just make sure it's not too big;)..and he met you with your tattoos, so i don't understand the problem..
2006-06-13 04:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Fabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a women with tattoos are for very sexy ,they are a total turn on .i love a women with a full back tattoo
2006-06-13 04:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your not a freak about them, its all good. I just am not attracted to women who are covered with tattoo's.
2006-06-13 04:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by The Mullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋