well i will be sitting there horny and when me and my boyfriend go and have sex its like he dont make me hot and horny for him but with some one else. like i love him and we have been together for 6 years i dont know if i want him any more
2006-06-13 04:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by sexy_geeneyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like your man doesn't know how to please you. Does he go downtown and do the job there or does he just insert and thrust?? To please a woman you have to take your time, and be patient. Realize what she responds to and listen for the audible signs of gratification. Have him do this, if it works, great. If he can't please you call me.
2006-06-13 04:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience...for me it was fear of intimacy...not being honest with the other person...even if it hurts...six years is a long time...think about what it's going to be like the next six years...sex is in the brain...if it's not allowed to think than nothing you do is going to help.
The otherside of the coin is that you two may not be able to accept each others sexuality.
2006-06-13 11:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by icreatemore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it has just old to you or there is certain spots that a man can touch to turn a woman on... a lot is what is going on in your head... you need to find out if you really do love and care for him.. making love with someone you love and if you do not love them then it is just an act...i find it hard to submit or enjoy sex without feelings for the person...so maybe you need to figure out how you really feel about him and go from there.....if you care try spicing up your siex life by little things that you do to him to and see if that helps...also think if there is something you would like him to do to you to turn you on....only you can make the decision about how you feel about him now...i do not know you or him....so good luck and i hope i have helped you and i hope all turns out well for you.......
2006-06-13 11:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have strong feelings for him you better get out now. It won;t get any better. Maybe you're just afraid of starting over to find someone else. Be true to yourself.
2006-06-13 11:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by JENNY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mybe u guys should see different people if it doesnt turn u on..... That means ur not attracted to him anymore....
2006-06-13 11:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!!!! I'm sorry! You should talk to each other and open up about what turns you on and what you want..... I dosent hurt to ask.
2006-06-13 11:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just doesn't have it anymore.
2006-06-13 12:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your soooooooo boooooooored
2006-06-13 11:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is unromantic
2006-06-13 11:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋