My girl is a bit of a prude and thats fine i guess but i think its because she has a lot of body issues and weird self esteem issues that she really shouldnt AT ALL...yet she does
Im wondering whats the best way to talk with her about her prudishness and if its really because she isnt ready or if its another issue with her self esteem etc without coming off as thinking of only sex?
If shes genuinly isnt ready/doesnt want to thats fine with me but if its not then i think we should take this step in our relationship
2006-06-13 04:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by S.A.M. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it's because of a lack of self confidence, ease her into the idea. make her comfortable with you, - be easy going and non-judgemental about bodies, period! for example if you see the ugliest woman you've ever seen in your life when you are with her, keep your lip zipped! or else she'll feel like you will readily judge her too. tell her how beautiful she is. point out the things you like on her. keep telling her those things. eventually she'll trust you enough to be more comfortable in exposing herself to you.
2006-06-13 04:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you respect your gf if she has told you she's not ready, then she's not ready, and you calling her a prude, it rude and disrespectful of you. And, going to the next step in a relationship actually can ruin it, if you are pressuring her to much, and you both should wait until your married, premarital sex, is a bit wrong. And, sounds to me she's not ready, and you are so either respect her and keep it in your pants, or dump her, and do your thing, because obviously your ready she's not, and you have no respect for your woman calling her a prude when don't want to give it up to you.
2006-06-13 04:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by farside76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that your definition of prude is that she doesn't want to have sex despite the fact that you are ready. Have you talked to her about any reservations she might have? Does she know that you are ready? I'm not sure how long you have been in this relationship, but maybe she just doesn't want the first time to be a "back of the car" encounter. Just talk to her and find out her true feelings.
2006-06-13 04:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by bboytwogun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh maybe so! shes probley prude because shes never been rude before! she will probley come out of her shell once its gone that bit futher!
but as for talking to her without coming across of sex all the time, like its all you want, then thats going to be hard to beat around the bush with! i would just reassure her and make her feel comfortable with herself whilst around you, by telling her how sexy she is, and trying summet like... "i would love you to do that or do this! and try not to be to pushy about the conversation because if she is just a prude then she will take it wrong ither way!
just be sensitive! good luck
2006-06-13 04:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanx for the 2 points :)
good luck ! u know u gf better than us so i think u shud handle it in ur own very way.
2006-06-13 04:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, tell her how you feel.
2006-06-13 04:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋