girls please help me im young tall and fit why do you all cheat on me ( 20 years old 6.2" brown hair and i love to cook )
2006-06-13 03:55:12 · 27 answers · asked by chris T 1 in Dining Out ➔ United Kingdom ➔ Glasgow
You just keep running into the wrong women. Try going somewhere else to meet people. Dont give up hope, there wil be someone out there for you.
2006-06-13 03:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll start by answering that being gay is not a choice and it isn't something you turn to.
Look at yourself first. You need to value who you are before you can ask someone else to find value in you. In many ways, you may not be the kind of guy most young women your age are looking for. You use the term "good girls" as this is purely subjective and there really isn't any way to define what your version of "good" is. The reverse question should be asked of you...which is..."What kind of girl would date a guy like me?" Look at your own set of values, determine what your goals are and ask yourself who would be a match for that.
You are only 20 years old and that is still a very young age. Take your time and mature some more. Learn more about the bigger world outside your neighborhood and your small group of friends. The other thing is that beauty is only skin deep, which is something that "good" girls will look past to find a man who will value them, make them feel secure and protect them. Good girls will be attracted to a good man.
Do some thinking about your own life and think about what makes you attractive. You will find your answers there.
2006-06-13 13:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by PJ M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not too clingy are you? That's a big turn off for girls. Don't get me wrong, girls need a guy that will give them attention, but you also want to be with someone that has a personality in the sense that they have their interests and we have ours. And if the interests are different sometimes, that's cool, more to learn about and experience.
Or maybe you're just not being picky enough? Raise your standards. If you've dated the same kind of girls in the past, learn from it. Sure it hurts, but take it as a lesson so you won't find yourself in the same situation again. Figure out what you did like about your past girlfriends & relationships & what you didn't. Also figure out what the past lacked in that you know you need. And make a list of 3-4 traits that are a MUST in a girlfriend.
Don't dispair - someone's out there that's right for you. But until you stumble across from her, figure yourself out and enjoy youself in the meantime. Things always happen when you least expect it & things happen for a reason (cliched, I know, but that's what I do believe). Hope that helps & sorry about the cheating - I know how that feels.
2006-06-13 11:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tygirljojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not fighting a lose battle. Neither are you going to turn gay. Take your time in picking your partner. Don't be in a rush you are still young pray that GOD almighty will give you that who will look after your heart and would not go about cheating on you
2006-06-13 11:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by lawretta e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, get smart. Plan a barbecue to show of your cooking skills. Print invitations to show off your computer skills. Invite only girls - to show them they all have to compete. Don't chase them - be polite, charming, charismatic and let them want you! Make the atmosphere romantic with coloured lights and candles. You'll have no competition - no other guys around. I can guarantee they will all be talking about you! Make sure you have plenty of booze for them too. Make it clear - they have to find their own way home - but take the one home who comes across as most honest. Beautiful girls are so in love with themselves, they have little left for guys. They cheat - because they can. So be aware of the girls who are polite and serious and not out to impress with skirts that are short and tops that are low. Look for the nice honest girls - the type you can trust with your life - you may need to one day.
2006-06-13 11:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking for these good girls? Maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places. Good Girls don't hang out in clubs and such. Try the library. You're young! You have plenty of time! When you're without a girl friend concentrate on yourself and spend time with friends and family. Sometimes when you stop searching is when you find what you're looking for.
2006-06-13 11:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 20 for god's sake. Enjoy playing the field while you're young. There are plenty of loving, faithful girls out there. The right one will fall in your lap one day. Try the north east-we're lovely up here!
2006-06-13 11:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Patchouli Pammy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah, sure, go ahead and go gay... like there are any good GUYS out there either. Maybe you should try fixing the problem that is causing your girlfriends to cheat.. and if you really, truly don't think you are doing anything wrong, maybe you need to find a woman that is more mature than the ones you have been dating. (or maybe you need therapy)
2006-06-13 11:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people are cheaters or have been cheated on, but that doesn't mean you won't find a trustworthy girl. also, you can't "turn gay." if you're seriously thinking about "turning gay," then you already are. come out of the closet already. if you just said that for humorous emphasis then hang in there - she'll come along someday! in the meantime, have fun & sew those wild oats.
2006-06-13 11:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by BAH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do say the grass is greener on the otherside but don't you think your taking the piss just a wee bit. Get over it and move on also if you are choosing the wrong women may be you need to change your views on your life first before finding a new partner.
2006-06-13 11:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look mate its not good to b talking like that! i was 20 when i had my first proper relationship. there is know rush really, just take your time and enjoy life and your mates to full! you will meet the right girl eventually! just don't look, i know it sounds stupid but the girl that comes when you least expect it is usually the one that works out the best. and every thing you describe yourself to b is wot a girl is looking 4! don't give up the ghost just yet your only young!!!!!
2006-06-13 16:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋